Some people are really confused...  

whatever12320 32M
5 posts
7/2/2006 7:45 am

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Some people are really confused...


Is there anyone else out there that is sick of the word "bisexual" being abused? I sure as hell am. Last time I checked, "bi" meant someone that enjoys the company of both men and women. Well, someone needs to relay this definition to quite a few people on here and some of the sister sites to this one. I have gotten at least 6 or 7 messages from guys that go something like this...

"Hi, I am a bi male looking to get my dick sucked. I am not looking for a relationship and I don't suck dick myself, nor do I do any ass play. I might be willing to jerk you off if I feel like it, but don't count on it. Let me know if you are interested."

Interested? If that's all he wants, I'll send him a coupon for the fleshlight with the mouth attachment. That's about all he needs. So, the question is, what makes this guy "bi"? He doesn't seem to be all that interested in the guy giving him the blowjob. So, if he just wants a bj, and doesn't care if it comes from a guy as long as he doesn't have to return the favor, is he really "bi", or just desperate?

How many guys actually respond to this kind of message. I don't know about the rest of the people on here, but I would like to get some action too. Don't get me wrong, I would love to pleasure a man or a woman, but it sure would be nice to get something in return. Maybe I am just way off base. Is there anyone else that feels the same way?

DanaeKC 43F
600 posts
7/2/2006 8:19 am

"Hi, I am a bi male looking to get my dick sucked. I am not looking for a relationship and I don't suck dick myself, nor do I do any ass play. I might be willing to jerk you off if I feel like it, but don't count on it. Let me know if you are interested."

DAMN! that is hardcore selfish! lol and yes, they are bi. they're just selfish. kind of like the straight guys who talk a bunch of shit about dining at the y, but all they really want is a blowjob and a place to put their cock and to hell with what their partner also desires.

they're just selfish. they're probably the same way with the women in their lives -- that's why they're on here, trying to get some down low dick in a way that they can still call themselves 'men' in the morning. forget 'em.


whatever12320 32M
1 post
7/2/2006 7:01 pm

Thanks for the comment DanaeKC. It's nice to see people actually read what I write.

Well, that little message is not a direct quote. It is a collection of a few different messages I'd received in the past. Most of them are along that line. I don't respond to them, but I am just a little irritated at the number of them I get. Of course, there are a few message from people that seem really cool, and genuine. I really like those messages. They don't even have to be sexual. I enjoy just chatting with people.


DanaeKC 43F
600 posts
7/4/2006 3:54 am

    Quoting whatever12320:
    Thanks for the comment DanaeKC. It's nice to see people actually read what I write.

    Well, that little message is not a direct quote. It is a collection of a few different messages I'd received in the past. Most of them are along that line. I don't respond to them, but I am just a little irritated at the number of them I get. Of course, there are a few message from people that seem really cool, and genuine. I really like those messages. They don't even have to be sexual. I enjoy just chatting with people.
I know your story personally (or rather, someone it would personally affect) is all. And no, dudes shouldn't do that to other dudes. But they're just treating you like they treat the women here. They buy into the hype about zipless sex -- tonight! -- but they have so many issues and hangups about sex and sexuality themselves... oh well.

they deserve to be ignored; and yes i can see where it would get irritating, to be treated not just like a toy (which can be good with the right person), but as a toy which someone is ashamed of using, which is NEVER cool. they are bad people; or rather, what they're asking of you is bad. it's bad karma. it's a bad vibe. it's wrong to fuck someone you're ashamed of; and it's wrong to blame that person for being a toy because you're really ashamed of yourself. but that's what would happen if anyone hooked up with these losers.


Bohica234 33M
1 post
10/13/2016 9:35 am

If you are still looking for some experiences, look for me on IM. We could chat and maybe get together.


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