Squirting  

wettandready4U 46F
21 posts
6/4/2006 9:44 am

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Squirting


I want o be able to squirt. Anyone have any hints?

sexy_fun_guy_101 47M

6/4/2006 12:54 pm

Hey squirting in fun. I have been dating a girl that does. It's so hot when she does. It seems like I have to give it to her for quite awhile before she starts doing it. I think if you keep practicing and trying you can. Most girls hold it back because it feels like they are going to pee I think.

I've been in your neighborhood a few times. I'm heading to toledo bend fishing this week. It would be fun letting me try to get you there. I have been with four girls total that have squirted. So there aren't many that really do it.


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
6/4/2006 1:06 pm


I think there's quite a few blogz on female squirting....

welcome to blogging


sexy_fun_guy_101 47M

6/4/2006 1:07 pm

I found this on another glog about squirting. Hope it helps.

If you were to refer to literature over the last 50 years you would be lead to believe that females have only been able to ejaculate since about 1980. Of course this is absurd, and just shows how "the experts" can be wrong for decades on just about anything. Many knew the experts were wrong, but had little success in convincing anyone. Needless to say this lead to many problems, needless surgery (to fix the poor women who would ejaculate), expensive counselling (got to find out what happened when they were children to cause this "problem"), and in some cases divorce. "The G Spot" by Alice Kahn Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry, has dozens of letters from women who went though various personal tragedies because they would ejaculate during lovemaking. Doctors, gynaecologists, and psychiatrists invariably told them they were peeing and needed either surgery or psychotherapy.

Newsweek published an article entitled "Just How the Sexes Differ" in May of 1981. One of the major difference was listed was that men ejaculate, but women do not. However, Aristotle wrote about female ejaculation, and Galen knew about it in the second century. The female prostate, which generates the fluid which is ejaculated, was described in some detail by De Graaf in his "New Treatise Concerning the Generative Organs of Women". (1) "... during the sexual act it discharges to lubricate the tract so copiously that it even flows outside the pudenda. This is the matter which may have been taken to be actual female semen." He describes the fluid as "rushing out" with "impetus" and "in one gush." (2)

The medical community was finally awakened in 1980 when Perry and Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the SSSS (Society for the Scientific Study of Sex). Martin Weisberg, M.D., a gynecologist at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia responded, "Bull ... I spend half my waking hours examining, cutting apart, putting together, removing, or rearranging female reproductive organs. There is no female prostrate, and women don't ejaculate."

Yet after seeing the film and witnessing the event in person he changed his tune: "The vulva and vagina were normal with no abnormal masses or spots. The urethra was normal. Everything was normal. She then had her partner stimulate her by inserting two fingers into the vagina and stroking along the urethra lengthwise. To our amazement, the area began to swell. It eventually became a firm one by two cm oval area distinctly different from the rest of the vagina. In a few moments the subject seemed to perform a Valsalva maneuver (bearing down as if starting to defecate) and seconds later several cc's of milky fluid shot out the urethra. The material analysis described in the paper (Perry & Whipple's) is correct, its composition was closest to prostatic fluid".

Problems Women have Ejaculating

I think there are two major problems women face that prevents them from the immensely enjoyable experience of ejaculation. They are the female's mental attitude, and their partners inability or unwillingness to spend the time and effort during lovemaking and to learn the necessary techniques. We will address both of these problems and the solutions here.

The ejaculation is done through the urethra. This is the same tube that is used for urination. It is located outside the vagina, between it and the clitoris. The fluid is water like, and non- lubricating. In no way does ejaculation improve the chances of conceiving, it offers no lubrication, and is dumped outside of the vagina. The only conceivable purpose of female ejaculation is for pleasure. And the pleasure is intense, in many cases far surpassing the best orgasm's. Often ejaculation takes place during both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm (yes there are two type of orgasms, clitoral and vaginal, but often orgasm is a combination of the two), giving the female extreme pleasure, sort of a triple whammy. Sometimes after ejaculation the female will virtually pass out from the intense feelings.

It can be argued that since the only reason that females can and do ejaculate is for pleasure, then there should be no reason for them to not do so, and as often as they please. It is one of the safer sex acts, since in most cases it can be triggered with fingers alone. Ejaculating from intercourse is more difficult, especially when performed from the missionary position, but still possible.

Preparation Recommendations for the Woman's Partner

Wash hands well. Trim fingernails. Make sure that the thumb, and first two finger nails do not extend past the fingertips. Trimming them as far back as possible would be best. Make sure that there is no dirt or crud under the fingernails.

Place a towel on the bed. A surprising amount of fluid can be released during female ejaculation. Compared to a male it can be like a water cannon instead of a water pistol.

Have some K&Y Jelly handy. At some point additional lubrication may be necessary, even if she is having heavy orgasms and climaxes.

Set aside enough time. The first successful ejaculation may take from 10 minutes to over an hour.

It may be wise to exercise your hands, fingers, and arm for several days prior to this exercise. The motions necessary can become quite tiring after a while if you are not in good physical shape.

Before beginning the first time, discuss it. Let her know that you are striving to give her an ejaculation. That female ejaculation is perfectly normal, and a wonderful experience for both of you. Convince her that there is nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. Explain that just prior to ejaculation, she most likely will feel like she is about to pee. This is a difficult point for many women, as they will immediately draw back. Convince her that it is normally impossible to pee during an orgasm, and that the feeling is simply the first sign she is about to ejaculate.

Since the movement of the fluid through the urethra will initially feel exactly like when she starts to pee, this is very important. The reflex to stop peeing will immediately abort the ejaculation, so she needs to be told to relax, and allow the fluid to pass. In other words when she feels like she is about to pee, she should go ahead and pee. Only it really won't be pee, it will be an ejaculation, and within a couple of seconds it will be very obvious to her that this is something quite different. Once she knows the feeling, she will be able to push it out once it starts, with astounding results. It is best for the partner to be sitting between her legs at this time, else she may overshoot the towel or even wet the far wall.

Once she has ejaculated, rejoice with her. Don't make fun, or a joke. If you do it may be the last time she will be able to ejaculate, at least in your presence. Unlike a man, this is not the end. You can continue, and she may well have multiple orgasms and ejaculations with further stimulation.

Technique

Start slow. Use typical foreplay. You may want to start with her on her back. Stimulate the clitoris. This can be done with a moist finger, or with your tongue. Performing cunnilingus while rubbing her breasts with your hands can be quite stimulating for her. At any rate, continue clitoral stimulation until she is lubricated. At this point slide two fingers into her vagina. Allow them to move along the front wall of the vagina. You should encounter an area about 2 inches in, which should be somewhat enlarged. This is the G spot. It lies directly along the urethra, and is located almost directly behind the clitoris. Slowly stroke this area. It should start becoming more enlarged.

Ejaculation is almost always triggered by stimulating the G spot. Clitoral stimulation can often assist in helping her reach an ejaculation, and also can make it more intense. But stimulating the G spot is usually necessary at least initially. Once she starts ejaculating easily, she may find that clitoral stimulation alone is sufficient.

Stroking can be done a number of ways. The two fingers can rub the area as a unit, or they can take opposite strides, similar to walking. A third method involved sliding the two finders out a fraction of an inch, and pushing them back in, similar to the in- out motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes. Initially pace the stimulation somewhat slow. Alternate with clitoral stimulation either with the thumb, other hand, or mouth/tongue. Also try simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. Watch her reactions.

Simultaneous may be too intense for some but necessary for ejaculation for others. Take your cues from her. When she starts bearing down, and you feel the vagina contract, begin pumping rapidly. When she is in the middle of an orgasm, stimulate the clitoris at the same time, and pump the G spot gently, but very rapidly. Talk to her. Say, "your getting it, go for it, don't worry, relax and let it come" or other similar words. She may need reassurance that if she drenches you, you will not be upset. Tell her how erotic you find it for her to ejaculate. Make her comfortable with both you, and the idea of ejaculation.

This actually is not the best position. If she does not succeed after a short time, have her roll over on her stomach, and get up on her knees. You will find stimulating the G spot much easier in this position, and she will most likely respond much better. With the two fingers turned down, slide your two fingers back into her vagina. Find the G spot and continue stimulating the G spot. You may use the other hand to stimulate the clitoris. If after a couple of orgasms, using rapid pumping on the G spot during orgasm, she still has not ejaculated, then turn the hand around, putting the thumb into the vagina.

The thumb will likely not reach the G spot, but don't worry, it should come up to meet the thumb during orgasm. Take the two fingers and lay them down on the clit. Allow the entire curve between the thumb and forefinger to lie along her from the vagina to her clitoris, and begin pumping with the thumb, and rubbing the clit at the same time. When she starts an orgasm, start pumping the entire hand rapidly. At this point she will most likely ejaculate. The trick is to massage the area where the urethra comes out, while stimulating the clitoris and G spot. This will help to override the feeling she is about to pee, and allow her to let it pass.

Be aware that the female is not only capable of multiple orgasms, but also multiple ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from 3 to 5 ejaculations before depleting her supply of cum. Once she has ejaculated one or more times, you can continue with intercourse. Entering from behind will stimulate the G-spot more easily than missionary style, and often additional ejaculations will occur during intercourse. Even if they don't, she will be highly excited, and very sensitive. The final result will most likely be the most intense and pleasurable sex she has ever had.

I highly recommend "The G Spot" for further reading.


ShaneLiveLife 50M

6/4/2006 1:10 pm

Hi !

I'm clearly not an expert since I'm not a woman !

... but I can offer some comments based on limited experience with my last partner:

1. it seemed to occur when she was really worked up (after experiencing a series of orgasms).

2. a long session of pussy eating led to the above.

Perhaps I should describe the mechanics of what I did in my next fantasy blog - what do you think ?

Live with passion !


rm_art_persists 52M
1789 posts
6/4/2006 1:45 pm

There's an active blog written by LilSquirt which constantly details this...


rm_Neptunog69 38M
22 posts
6/4/2006 2:09 pm

I think that inside of vagina there is a deposit and some point to stimulate that allow that the liquid grow and with the deposit full the expulse of liquid and giving and powerfull orgasm and relief of plesure.
I see some movies of Cytheria and was the idea that i stay of course i have friends that say that she is pissing but i disagree with that because we can find many sites about that i think the first step is you find the spot inside of your vagina with calm.The right place i don't know maybe some girls can tell you because i have seen here many girls doing that here in this site.

P.S i don't know if i can put here sites of that but try to put "how to squirt" in the biggest serch engine and in page two is a place with more info of it i have a ebook with that but i don't know here it is.


rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
6/4/2006 2:36 pm

Relax.....
Be in the moment....
Do not pressure yourself in the name of performance.

It may come upon you when you least expect it...so don't.
Just enjoy...completely and totally and surrender to pure
pleasure ...not holding anything unto yourself..

What everyone has written all applies at one time or another
and yet there are lots of blogs dedicated to this. It is a
natural point of response for me...let it be natural and free
flowing for you also...no pun intended! Relaxing into the pleasure
is key...


Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


rm_1SweetBitch 55F
8575 posts
6/4/2006 4:09 pm

Welcome to blogging...I hope your stay here is a enjoyable one.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch


alexand1964 52M

6/7/2006 9:33 am

Would love to teach you. I have found that most women can squirt if they let go and try. The best technique I have found is oral stimulation of the clit while also massaging the area inside the vagina that is right behind the clit. This is generally considered to be the g-spot. But, I have found massaging and pressing on this during oral can get a woman to squirt. The women I have been with have a feeling or sensation as if they have to pee. This is why some don't let go. However, if they just let it go, they will squirt rather than pee. The liquids come from two different places as discussed above by sexy_fun_guy in the article he provided. If you let go, you will have a wonderful feeling. You might flood the bed with liquid but it all cleans up and is not urine. In fact, I know one lady that uses those pads that people use for changing diapers to keep the bed dry. Put it underneath ya and everything stays dry and believe me, she was a real squirter. Hope this helps and you are able to try it out soon. And, hey, would be glad to help and give lessons. Just drop me a line.

David


willing2tryit42 40M
1141 posts
6/7/2006 10:19 am

Hi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


LOVE2LICK6951 65M
2 posts
6/17/2006 7:09 pm

honey you ve got to relax and enjoy the feelings and you ll enjoy all the pleasures of sex. i ve had about six lovers that enjoy squirting and i think i can bring you to to that stage of squirting. i m in lacombe and i drive a united cab in n.o., i m called chico. i d loved to bring you into new heights and pleasures of love and sex.


rm_rare617 29M

10/2/2006 5:03 pm

basically, it's all about getting incredibly turned on, and then the guy has to stroke you the right way. I have been able to give all my gf's squirting orgasms consistently, and it's much easier after they've ridden around on me for a while. What sexy_fun_guy_101 said is prettymuch right, but it honestly requires a guy who knows what he's doing to get it to work.


rm_Nolamike1128 32M
11 posts
7/6/2008 9:32 pm

i can make it happen...hit me back


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