1420 posts
5/2/2006 2:59 am

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It`s understandable that guys can get quite disheartened when they send out email after email without any reply.

As a standard member, I only get a certain amount of emails per day to use and then have to wait 24 hours before I get replenished.

So as much as I try and let these guys know a reply, especially when asked, I do get quite a lot of contacts, some just chatting, I must send the quick replies, cold some of them and not always exactly appropriate. This is again why I try to remember to put as much detail in profile as possible and ask to read it.

It all isn`t perfect, but thems the breaks

Charlie17012 55M
52 posts
5/2/2006 4:21 pm

Hey, just stopped by to see ya and could not pass this up... I am letting my silver lapse because it is not just the level of membership here. I think it is just the attitudes of everyone. I have sent emails to many people and not gotten any reply even when I tell them, if you have to reply in the Blog. And these are not just to see if these people are willing to meet but people whom I thought looked interesting to get to know. So, out of 200 or so emails I have had 14 answers. Then half of those have been shut down by AdultFriendFinder for "misuse of the website". So does that mean we are all phoney?

I am not negative about this, just wanted to point out that people are not always what they claim to be...

Hope you are doing fine Down Under Later

941 posts
5/2/2006 5:12 pm

I hear ya Charlie. If I only had have thought when AdultFriendFinder had their survey recently about getting them to add some more relevant quick replies. Like the chemistry one, when I use that, I `ve had a few say how could I know, I`ve never met them or spoken to them. But to me, it also means visually unattracted.

Would be nice also if standard members could at least view the basic stats of members and if profile attached also meant the ideal person section.

Best of Luck with it all Charlie

rm_jedi0072005 42M
11 posts
5/11/2006 1:12 am

might be astupid question,and quite obvious.hhmmm stupid and obviuos off to a good start!! how do you get free emails as a standard member??

941 posts
5/11/2006 4:07 am

Jedi, free emails seems to be only for girls and you must spend a little time responding and contact. Seems you get one free profile look...I really can`t recall now, but activity got me some free contact daily.

I had one guy buy some contact for me to contact him back, and I felt bad, as he didn`t need to spend his money to do that. If I run out daily, I just wait a bit. Sorry I can`t be more helpful, pretty sure it is a girl thing. You know, it might explain why some guys I have had complaints about who pretend to be chicks on this site, or maybe that is something else completely, LOL

rm_jedi0072005 42M
11 posts
5/13/2006 4:56 am

hahaha your probably right!! its the female thing you know they just get everything for nothing!! i understand, i can lower my self respect but not to becoming a female.i like them to much to be one of them, if that makes sense.just wanna see if this works

funny if it does as i see a lot of people put int he email address. i wanna see if mine pops up.no for self promotion trust me! maybe just a little bit.

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