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wetta_one
1420 posts
5/28/2006 7:09 pm

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6/29/2006 2:29 am

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In an hour alone I have had 6 gold members wink at me. Is this what you would normally do in public if you saw someone you found appealing and maybe wanted to get to know? Now I can totally understand a standard member doing this.

Why just wink? Does anyone have any ideas why they aren`t sending an email, why they don`t 'properly' introduce themselves, say hello? Are they intimidated, scared, nervous, not good with words, rude, what?

The only real based idea I have for some may be that they don`t match something in your profile and think they might be wasting yours and their time. Hmmm, well a lot of opportunities are messed by not stepping up!

haversack_smith 40M
6192 posts
5/29/2006 2:54 am

It's not something I do myself, but they might want some reassurance that there's mutual attraction there before they make the effort of writing something personal to you... as a guy it's very easy to get disheartened after writing to twenty/fifty/hundred women and hearing nothing back.

Alternatively, they might just be lazy.


wetta_one
941 posts
5/29/2006 3:56 am

Haversack, your upside down photo is rather appropriately um, positioned under my ass


haversack_smith 40M
6192 posts
5/29/2006 6:36 am

LOL. Oh no, whatever should we do about it.

@!@


rm_mknot59 57M

5/29/2006 9:14 am

Well if I could reply to you wetta, I would... I agree that haversack is nicely positioned there to see that very tidy tail indeed.

So very few ladies reply that it can be disheartening unless one copies a "form" letter of introduction to each and every... and that is hardly any way to get to know somebody. I wonder if you replied to the winks or winked back? I'm sure that'd get their attention.

cheers,
mknot


wetta_one
941 posts
5/29/2006 1:23 pm

Hunni, lest you have a 1000 mile penis, there`s not a lot we can do


wetta_one
941 posts
5/29/2006 2:49 pm

    Quoting rm_mknot59:
    Well if I could reply to you wetta, I would... I agree that haversack is nicely positioned there to see that very tidy tail indeed.

    So very few ladies reply that it can be disheartening unless one copies a "form" letter of introduction to each and every... and that is hardly any way to get to know somebody. I wonder if you replied to the winks or winked back? I'm sure that'd get their attention.

    cheers,
    mknot
Thankyou for the compliment

My profile picture got their attention, I assume they read it and it is quite clear as to what my ideal person is and leaves room for personality. I won`t wink/write back lest there is enuff there to be interested in and frankly words/templates and no pictures isn`t attention grabbing.

Being a paying member and only winking to me is a copout, you`re paying for it, put your best foot forward, make your email applicable to them and stay positive. The rewards are worth it...yes?


haversack_smith 40M
6192 posts
5/30/2006 12:47 am

    Quoting wetta_one:
    Hunni, lest you have a 1000 mile penis, there`s not a lot we can do
Well, I don't like to boast, but...


wetta_one
941 posts
5/30/2006 1:55 am

Well, um, what are we waiting for then? Mwaaaaahhhh, luv ya


rm_jasco1970 46M

6/9/2006 7:08 pm

i have just joined and i thought the same as the first comment that you sent a wink and it they read your profile and sent one back then you start proper communications. well that's my thoughts for a newbie on here plus i also waiting for the 48hr new sign up thing to clear so as far as i know thats about all i could do for now
best regards

ps oh nearly forgot ......... nice pic *sigh* *wipes chin* >;->


rm_Xave21 35M
12 posts
6/10/2006 1:27 am

maybe they don't kwno how to write? I'm kidding

Nice picture, and the men, who met you, were happy I think


wetta_one
941 posts
6/10/2006 1:36 am

Thanks Xave, and yes testimonials are not compulsory, in my opinion are to be put there for actuals meets if that`s what`s in your profile, and no I never ask for them, not really necessary, not everyone believes them anyway-their choice .

Oh Jasco, hun, I think too many people on here let the site rule them on how they should behave. The option of a wink is there yes, but you have the right of contact as paying members, and you more than likely wouldn`t just try and wink in public to get a girls attention, so why let the option tell you what to do. I reiterate so many people don`t have clear pictures in their profile for me to even rate if I might be visually attracted, too many say very little in their profile or use the AdultFriendFinder template so it isn`t their words anyway. If you don`t want to put your best foot forward, make an effort and introduce yourself, throw around some compliments and try and woo the lady, what is the point of shrugging your shoulders and giving up?


lookingtwomeet 53M

6/14/2006 5:50 am

Hi wetta_one
In my case i rather send a wink to silver and gold and if they like to chat it can be their choise... say its old fashion if you want but I belive you woman must get bombarded by emails and feel like you should reply, this way if I dont get a email or wink back i wont anoy them with a email,,


wetta_one
941 posts
6/14/2006 2:50 pm

    Quoting lookingtwomeet:
    Hi wetta_one
    In my case i rather send a wink to silver and gold and if they like to chat it can be their choise... say its old fashion if you want but I belive you woman must get bombarded by emails and feel like you should reply, this way if I dont get a email or wink back i wont anoy them with a email,,
Oh, you should never assume anything. And introducing yourself and wooing a woman might be the difference between success and the usual ignoring you.

GEEZ, don`t you guys get it!! You`re poking a woman in the ribs and expecting it to open her legs, or for some of you, her heart. Since when were women ever that easy???? Put in some bloody effort for crying out loud (I KNOW some of you do and congratulations, BRILLIANT ) If you go up to a woman in public and say something complimentary to her, yes, you`ll get some turds that will swear at you, abuse you or look down her nose, but generally you should get a smile, a thankyou, or aren`t you sweet etc, same on here. Think dammit, THINK MAN!

Y`all complain you don`t get responses and you wonder why, if it isn`t working, try a new approach, it won`t always win but at least you`ll know you made a concerted effort.


goldcoastsurf 38M
1 post
6/28/2006 9:33 pm

hey wetta_one i want to wink you and if i had membership i certainly would be messaging you so i could get in contact with you


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