What this woman would like is..............  

wetnwildaquarius 43F
574 posts
8/30/2005 2:34 pm

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What this woman would like is..............

Look I obviously have not laid out my cards on the table for some men to understand what I require as a woman. You can't tell me you know what to do with me when you do not know me. You can not say you know what I need when you never asked. You can not tell me what is best for me when I have been living this life on my own for over 16 years and counting.

What I really need is a man who is not aggressive with women; nor believes that how a woman likes to be treated.A man who will allow me to be myself and not alter anything that makes who I am. A man with good outstanding character with manners. It would be nice to meet a person who is out going and spantaneous at times. Some one who does not have to lie just to kick it with me. A man who knows how to show and express how he feels about himself and me. It would be nice to meet someone who knows how to respect a lady even on her worst day. A man that knows what to do if a woman becomes a little irrational from time to time. A man with patience and direction. A man who knows when to come to a woman's aide if he is needed.

There is more, but this is only part of the foundation that it takes to get next to me. I have been up front when I said it is already hard enough for me to trust men due to aggressive/abusive men. So why make my life even more complex when all I have inside of me is genuine. If you are not genuine leave my network peacefully and I will understand. I have suffered way too much for my age and deserve happinesss for once in my life. I am not a perfect woman, but I will always give you my very best. I never give up because I am not a quitter. My self-determination and faith keeps me going. But I am getting to the point where I am considering turning away from everything and everyone. Why? Because I know what I seek I will never find in one man alone.

wetnwildaquarius 43F

8/30/2005 2:45 pm

I know I must be living in a dream world with these expeactations. I know what I want and need are two different things. What are the chances that I find this man. I'm sure there will be some kind of drama.

rm_jgbkab 42M

8/30/2005 8:19 pm

If you want to know if a man is really sincere and wants you, withhold the poosie.

SetonRoilsJokes 48
59 posts
8/31/2005 1:49 am

dam good answer jqbkab- i could not have said it better. unfortunately alot of guys want to "hit it then quit it" once they get a taste.

A true man would want to get to know you and not make it so obvious with the fact that all he wants is the pussy.

A person's actions and comments speaks volumes about him or her.
Don't turn away from everybody and everything,just be more awre of who you are dealing with and make sure that your "bullshit" meter is set at a high level. That way you can detect the "real" from the "fake".

You got alot going for you Wet. You have too much going for you and don't let one man tear down what GOD has created in you as a strong,beautiful,independent,honest,and intelligent black woman.

fuck the guys who cant appreciate a good woman.It only makes it easier for good guys like myself to hold on to you

"keep risin to the top"


Priapeo 46M

8/31/2005 3:07 am

QUOTE: But I am getting to the point where I am considering turning away from everything and everyone. Why? Because I know what I seek I will never find in one man alone.

That would be a real pity for the good men out there! Yet you can get real close to what you ask in a single man (no, not me definitely!)... so, couldn't you just settle for a man lacking one minor virtue, like, for instance, being outgoing?

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience

wetnwildaquarius 43F

8/31/2005 6:32 am

I am and he is standing strong so far. I don't expect for him to just drop what he is doing and leave all behind. I expect for him to be him and allow me to be myself. I expect for him to allow me to continue growing and leaving room for error. I don't think that's asking too much at this time. I will say that inside I do believe all things are possible. They say to never say never because never is not forever.

rm_LOVE2LICK583 58M

8/31/2005 8:41 am


methodman1000 40M
1775 posts
9/4/2005 8:04 am

jgbkab is right and dunt turn away from everything and everybody.....it makes u a quitter which u r not and nothing or nobody gona make you one!!!

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