One night stands.  

wetnwildaquarius 44F
574 posts
8/17/2005 7:13 am

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One night stands.

Do you agree with people who are into one night stands or do you feel cheated? Unless there is a mutual agreement that this is what it is; then what happens when someone does it without discussing it. Does that seem fair to the person who is not aware of the fact that this is only a one night affair. Should they at least tell the person that they are into one nights only or is this just a risk thing.


wetnwildaquarius 44F

8/18/2005 5:50 pm

I totally disagree with one night stands because it may say I have aids and I need to leave before you find out! Or it is saying I don't give a fuck about nobody, but myself.


SetonRoilsJokes 48
59 posts
8/19/2005 11:39 pm

WELL I LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS-FIRST AND FOREMOST- PUT YOUR CARDS ON THE TABLE AND BE HONEST WITH THAT PERSON. THEN AGAIN HONESTY IS HARD(EXCUSE THE PUN) THESE DAYS.

ME,I DON'T KNOW IF I CAN SAY THAT I REALLY HAD A "TRUE " ONE NIGHT STAND.
I DID MEET A WOMAN,WHO IS STILL A FRIEND OF MINE NOW,WHERE WE WERE BOTH HORNY AND DECIDED TO HAVE A DATE TO WHICH WE HAD DINNER THEN WENT TO A MOTEL. WE WERE BOTH HONEST WITH HOW WE WERE GOING TO DO THIS.

I TOOK CARE OF THE DINNER AND MOTEL,BUT AT THE SAME TIME PRIOR TO THAT DATE WE BOTH HAD A GOOD REPITIORE WITH ONE ANOTHER AND ENJOYED TALKING AND CONVERSATIONS WE HAD ON THE PHONE.
SO THE NIGHT WAS ENJOYABLEAND I MADE SURE I LET HER KNOW HOW MUCH I APPRECIATED HER COMPANY BY GIVING HER FLOWERS.

HOWEVER,WE ARRANGED TO HAVE SEX AGAIN AND WE HAD A PILLOW TALK AND REALLY HAD A ENJOYABLE TIME.

SO MY DEFINITION OF A ONE NITE STAND WOULD BE JUST HAVING SEX WITH THAT ONE PERSON AND THATS IT. WELL I HAVE NOT DONE THAT BECAUSE USUALLY FIRST OF ALL I AM CHOOSY ABOUT WHAT WOMAN I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH AND HOW SHE IS PERSONALITY WISE. I LIKE TO FEEL THAT WOMAN OUT. SEE HOW SHE IS ON A INTELLIGENT LEVEL AND WHETHER OR NOT SHE IS SECURE WITHIN HERSELF. PLUS I AM ALSO HOPING THAT SHE IS A "FREAK"-MEANING THAT SHE IS SEXUALLY OPEN AND NOT REPRESSIVE ABOUT SEX.

SECOND, I LAY OUT WHERE I AM AS FAR AS LOOKING FOR A COMMITTED OR BEING THAT "FRIEND WITH BENEFITS"

THIRD-I WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT SHE SEES MY AIDS/H.I.V. TEST BEFORE WE EVEN HAVE SEX SO SHE SEES THAT I AM IN GOOD CONDITION.

4TH-ONCE I USUALLY HAVE SEX WITHA WOMAN I AM FEELING-I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER MORE THAN JUST THAT ONE NIGHT.

THE POINT OF THE MATTER IS-BE HONEST AND LAY YOUR CARDS OUT ON THE TABLE. DONT MISLEAD AND TRY TO BE SLICK ABOUT IT. IF THE PERSON IS DOWN THEN OK,BUT STILL CHECK FOR THAT PERSON'S H.I.V. TEST RESULTS.

BUT IF THEY ARE NOT THEN RESPECT THAT AND MOVE ON.DON'T BE AN IMMATURE SELFISH PERSON AND JUST THINK ABOUT YOUR SELF WITHOUT TAKING INTO CONSIDERATION THE OTHER PERSON'S FEELINGS AS WELL AS WISHES.

BE REAL WITH YOURSELF AND THE OTHER PERSON-WE ARE ADULTS-ACT WITH SOME SORT OF RESPECT AND RESPONSIBILITY.


SetonRoilsJokes 48
59 posts
8/19/2005 11:42 pm

OH I MADE A SLIGHT ERROR- I MEANT TO SAY COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. OOPS?


wetnwildaquarius 44F

8/20/2005 2:11 pm

That's right Romman baby! I have my test results of all my exams. and I do show them to any who request them. I just took my annual exam and all my test were negative including the HIV test. I do it every year and I get my pap every year and a routine physical exam. I am in damn good shape with no diseases to report. Not now or ever. I love my body and myself. and I care about the person I am intimate with enough to let them know I am safe. MUAH babe! take care! and thanks for our talk last night. it really helped me alot. You are a true good friend.


SetonRoilsJokes 48
59 posts
8/21/2005 12:09 am

WET- IT IS ALWAYS MY PLEASURE AND I SPEAK FOR THE GENTLEMEN WHEN I SAY THAT ANYTIME YOU TALK TO US - IT IS OUR TREAT AND WE APPRECIATE IT ALOT!!!! -ANYTIME YOU SEE ME ONLINE -JUST HOLLA !!!!


wetnwildaquarius 44F

8/21/2005 7:18 am

Yes sweetheart! I will!


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