Men are women asking for too much today.  

wetnwildaquarius 43F
574 posts
7/28/2005 9:06 am

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Men are women asking for too much today.

Today I find myself asking am I too demanding of what I am asking of you. I know we as women can be very demanding of your time, your patience, and everything we as women may expect from you as men. But I am wondering what are we as women are doing to make you men take a step back.

Have we as women started to idealize you instead of just accepting you the way you are? Have we put too much pressure on how you are supposed to be? Have we asked for too much? Is it fair for women to ask for your honesty.

Have we as women expect you to be our knight in shining armor instead of just looking at you for who you are. Have we put stereo-typed you and put you all on the same accord? Have we as women truly hurt you to the point where it's hard for you to even trust us?

What have we done to detour some of your judgments and beliefs in us? What can we do to make it right? How can we repair our relationship as men and women so that we can finally put some of the gender issues behind us. I think it is time for us to come together and resolve our differences between genders and show that we can appreciate each other no matter what has happen in the past.

We have been too hard on you men to a degree, but some have also made it hard for us. So how do we get past this point together. We can not afford to keep looking at one another as though this person is out to hurt me. We have all been through our share of heartaches and breaks.

I am learning that now as I have received several comments on my previous blogs. The men here are wonderful and have truly started to alter my way of viewing men. When I came here at first. My perspectives were not so positive and met some very influential men who really have had an impact on how I view men. I thank you all and have made mention of the men who have helped me along the way.

But men seriously; what should a woman do to make life easier for you? I am curious to know what a real man wants from his mate should he meet that person that really touches him in a way no one has done before.

Excuse the pic, but I was in the middle of a hot bath and moment. But I don't think you mind

(Juan S)
2642 posts
7/28/2005 10:56 am

Unfortunately pain, misunderstanding and just being taken advantage of from both sexes have gone on for far too long. The best thing that we as individualscan do, is to always treat others the way we ourselves want to be treated. As corny and basic as that may sound, it is still the best advice. Next time you feel like going off on someone that may not deserve it, think about how you'd feel if the shoe were on the other foot...and no, we don't mind you hoping out of the bath for us.

wetnwildaquarius 43F

7/28/2005 2:55 pm

Thank you siz and I bet you didn't

marcus1501 42M
1 post
8/11/2005 9:10 am

yur hot

wetnwildaquarius 43F

8/17/2005 4:06 pm

Thank you marcus1501!

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