A Change in the Relationship  

weineroftheworld 66M
107 posts
10/1/2005 7:45 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

A Change in the Relationship

I really don't know what to do. We havn't had sex since July. And then it was really HOT!!! I really do not think she realizes we have a problem. She hurts my feelings all the time. I know she doesn't really mean what she says, but it hurts anyway. Could this be the onset of, as granny used to say, 'old timers disease?' She is always griping and never has anything good to say about anything. Every time we eat out, all she does is gripe about the food, the service, the conversation going on at the next table. And we eat out a LOT. Sometimes it is downright embarassing - especially when she butts into their private conversation. Both of us are pretty healthy for our age. I am working on losing a little weight - very difficult to do when she refuses to respect my diet. Maybe I have done something to deserve this attitude. I cant't think of anything. She wanted to redo the house, we did it - all in her colors - using her plan - with nothing but contempt when I suggested something. Anyway - I still am still in love with her. I will do anything it takes to make her happy. Looking for ideas - got any?

bella_ 47F
4030 posts
10/5/2005 5:50 pm

Just listen closely to her...and be there...that is all we want

tillerbabe 55F

10/6/2005 9:15 pm

Show her optimism through your actions.
Don't respond or "coddle" her negativity. No "rewards" for negativity...
Take care of YOU! {=}

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