Clarity, love, and intimacy  

wavegoodbye 58F
15 posts
5/13/2006 10:09 am

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10/17/2007 11:06 am

Clarity, love, and intimacy

First, let me say that I'm the luckiest woman on the planet.

As I prepare to leave the area in which I've lived for 20 years, I am struck by the clarity with which I can view my life and those with whom I share it. My husband of 21 years, my best friend and love of my life, is thousands of miles away for the moment. At this stage in our relationship and as we prepare to renew and refresh our vows, we are aware that our love for each other has created an endless well of love for our children and for others. And as we share our love (and sex) with others, it brings more love back to our relationship with each other. And the sex keeps getting hotter! Really!!

I know it's unusual. A happily married couple, each playing with others. But why should it be? There's something about being totally satisfied, needing nothing, expecting nothing, that enables us to be in the moment, completely loving, open, honest, and clear. And our temporary de facto separation has enabled us both to be who we are apart from each other. Our choice to unlimit ourselves in our exploration of other relationships has proved tremendously rewarding for both of us and for those with whom we have shared ourselves.

AdultFriendFinder has provided an interesting meeting site. My profile of an available, intelligent, open woman has attracted zillions of men, even without a picture! I do appreciate the attention and would like to tell the many hopeful and horny men out there that isolated cock pictures with no person attached, cheating husbands, and humorless, uninspired, desperate notes are all turn-offs to me and, I'm guessing, most women. I know you have more to offer than what you're presenting. Get a little creative, clever, and humorous and you will get attention.
Oh, and honesty is a big one for me.

And I would like to say to most women: horny is a good thing in a man, especially if he can channel it creatively. There are lots of horny men out there. Just put up a profile on AdultFriendFinder and see what happens! If you know you just want sex, you can have your pick. But I think most of us, women and men, want way more than sex. Everyone wants love and emotional intimacy; they just don't realize it or don't know how to ask.

The advantage to AdultFriendFinder over, say, is that sex is spoken rather than unspeakable. You can get right past the pretense and be much clearer when/if you meet. Not that you have to jump right into bed. Just getting past the opressive repressive social mores on sex can be a great opening to an honest, open, intimate and loving relationship. If that's what you want.

OK, so back to being the luckiest woman on the planet. I seem to be vibrating at a very high level, drawing in to me all that I could possibly want or need. Not just through AdultFriendFinder, but also professionally and in daily life. Friends that had disappeared are reappearing, new friends and opportunities are presenting themselves, and the gifts are pouring in. I think my next post will be on gratitude...


MoonRise9 58M

5/13/2006 11:53 am

You do sound like the luckiest woman on the planet, though I'm certain that it's a lot more than just luck. Thanks for sharing all of this with us.

rm_Harved9 66M

5/13/2006 3:34 pm

interesting story

look forward to more


Seriously_Real 48M

5/13/2006 7:14 pm

It is a great place to be, this Blogville of ours. Good luck with the rest of the site, with brains are hard to find outside of Blogville....

--Seriously (thanks for stopping by)

rm_tatumperu 38M

5/13/2006 9:55 pm

hi, i love you! looking me...

playrigal2 59F

5/14/2006 11:13 am

very good post..informative too.
I like hearing what others have to say about this site.
Have met some great friends on here..looks like you are really having fun too.

hey-bratender 62M

5/14/2006 3:51 pm

I also love to hear how others see and feel things. I'v only recently discovered "blogging". And am really enjoying myself.
Although I really look forward to reading erotic stories from someone with a vivid imagination, I also enjoy reading posts like yours, which I also find pretty erotic.
The down-side is, that I've been spending a little more time in here than I should!!

earthShiva 59M

5/15/2006 6:12 am

"Don't you wish you were me? I Know I do!"

Dudley Moore in "Arthur"

Arranake 67M  
7 posts
8/21/2006 8:56 am

I truly do hope we get a chance to meet. You sound delightful and an exciting lady to get to know.


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