Kissing Coworkers  

watchmesquirm 45F  
95 posts
10/25/2005 5:31 am

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Kissing Coworkers

I had a dream last night about kissing a male coworker. I don't have a relationship with this man at work.... and by coworker I mean that he simply works for the same company, we rarely work together. I find him very attractive- in a magnum P.I. kind of way. As a matter of fact my very close girlfriends at work know that I have a crush on him and think I am crazy.

Why do they think I am crazy? Well... professionally he is a little bit difficult. One of those people that is a bit over qualified for his job, he is spinning his wheels and is a little bit bitchy because of it. But he is so darn smart. On a personal level he drives a big SUV with a fish and a W2 bumper sticker. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! Seriously, I hate the fish.

I know that his world and mine don't mesh. He believes vigilantly in things that I abhor. But I cannot seem to get him off the brain. And then last night in my dream he kissed me. And we kissed for a very long time. It was delightful. I am probably going to blush when I see him at work today. He is going to say hello with his mellifluous voice and his sparkly eyes will twinkle with mischief and I am going to recall this kiss that we shared and I am going to read like an open book. I am not a mysterious woman (damn all the women who exude that enviable mystery!).

Would you go out with someone that you were attracted to physically if they were absolutely not right for you? Would you go out with someone you worked with? I have been holding these feelings for my coworker, at bay... but they keep bubbling to the surface.


bella_ 47F
4030 posts
10/25/2005 6:49 pm

Go for never know what you may find out about him...he could be right for you given the chance.

watchmesquirm 45F  
99 posts
10/31/2005 6:19 pm

foto- I have been waiting for the opportunity to use your idea - to tell my coworker that he reminds me of someone... what a fun and flirty idea! Thanks!

Bella- yeah... there is part of me that wants to just go for it... but we are night and day. Is it smart to go into something knowing that you are from dramatically different worlds?

spinmedown 49M
3626 posts
11/11/2005 5:01 pm

Some things are best left as fantasies, and are nice if they spice up an otherwise dull day at the office.
Face it. You work with the guy and from the sounds of things, probably the best the two of you could manage is a one night stand.
If it was me, and yes I've done this many times; just build up a very nice fantasy and enjoy it. JMO

Most people are other people... FUCKING CHARACTER LIMIT!!! ~Oscar Wilde

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