watchmesquirm 45F  
95 posts
9/8/2005 12:05 pm

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Are you a good kisser?

One of my favorite things to do is kiss. I could kiss for hours on end. I know I am not alone! When I was married it often times crossed my mind that this would be the only person I would be kissing for the rest of my life (ugh). Even if the kissing had been delightful, it certainly would be difficult to sustain anything interesting for a very long time. Well as it happens, the marriage did not last and I am free to kiss as many people as I want!

But here is my dilemma: I am finding the majority of men that I am kissing to be somewhat inadequate in the kissing department. They might be fantastic lovers, but without the art of kissing down, I am simply not satisified.

There is the "hollow kisser" who just seems to have a gaping hole and not much is accomplished when the kissing happens. I find with this kisser that teeth meet way more often than they should.

There is the kisser who just has very shallow, non-exploritory kisses... no tongue, just many superficial lip kisses.

Then there is the opposite... the type of kisser that shoves his tongue down your throat. This is the worst. I feel completely suffocated by this kind of kisser, it is really overwhelming.

There is the hard kisser... who presses really uncomfortably hard against my lips... so much so that I occasionally get my lips pinched! Ouch!

There is the sloppy kisser. Just too much damn saliva and loose lips to boot!

And one of the worst ones was the one that actually passed little bits of food that had been caught in his teeth into my mouth. Seriously! This was a deal breaker... showed him the door shortly following.

Most of the men that I know will say they think they are a good kisser when asked.

I realize much of this discussion lends itself to personal taste (pardon the pun). But there have to be techniques that most people enjoy universally.

Thoughts anyone?

JustaSeeker 106F

9/8/2005 2:36 pm

Yes, yes, yes! That's what's missing...the kissing. I couldn't figure out what the problem was. Started to think I'd gone frigid, god forbid, but it's not that at all. It's just the necessary, can't do without it, irreplaceable rocket fuel that sends me to the moon. Long, slow, deep kisses that last for days... Thank you for making me realize this, and sorry I don't have any great inspirations to share that would shed light on the subject. I have to get on this now.

watchmesquirm 45F  
99 posts
9/8/2005 6:15 pm

JustaSeeker, your response made me literally laugh out loud. Thanks for understanding where I am coming from... and p.s. you were did put your finger on something: long, slow, deep kisses. Yummy.

AlertStoicKiddy 55M
11 posts
9/9/2005 9:53 am

Greetings, I am new to this service and unfamiliar with appropriate etiquette so I will get right to the point. I am looking for someone to share erotic fantasies and role-play through online chat or via web-cam. Possibly meeting later if we are compatible.

watchmesquirm 45F  
99 posts
9/9/2005 12:04 pm

LGA612- Commenting in a blog is not how you want to approach chatting with someone 1:1 in hopes of an offline meeting. I will send you a private e-mail rather than "tutor" you in AdultFriendFinder etiquette.

Feel free to comment on my blog entry itself though! I love to hear other perspectives on kissing!

IdealSmile 39M

9/25/2005 7:15 am

Why learn to kiss when you can get straight down to the shagging.

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