Girl Kisses  

watchmesquirm 45F  
95 posts
9/24/2005 9:01 am

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Girl Kisses

Girl on Girl Action

I know that for the vast majority of men it is a huge turn on to watch two women getting sexy together. Some of those men have been in a threesomes and some would DIE to be in a threesome.

I recently spent a weekend visiting a couple of my very best girlfriends and after a few hours together and more than a few cocktails the conversation turned to... you guessed it, SEX! We talked about toys, penises and our favorite sexual positions. I am proud to announce that my favorite position was unknown to them both. We talked about sexual fetishes, BDSM and masturbation. Both of my friends were astonished and thrilled to learn that I had a traveling finger vibe in my purse that travels with me everywhere I go. By the end of the night they were asking me to show random strangers this intriguing and sexy little morsel of good love that I hold near and dear. I was both shocked and appalled to learn that one of my friends had NEVER indulged in self love - needless to say, I took her to a sex shop the next morning and bought her a vibrator! Both of my friends would be very agreeable to the fact that I am the most sexually enlightened in our trio.

As we continued with our flirtatious conversation of sex and intrigue, the discourse turned to pornography. All of us very much like porn. PORN IS GOOD! Let me say that again... PORN IS GOOD! We all have very clear preferences in what turns us on. My friend Jenn likes porn that has a story line... she claims she can't get into it if it isn't plausable. Personally I think that story lines are absurd... but to each her own! On the other hand, what drives me wild is anal, double penetration, 2 or more men on a female, dominance/submission, or any combination there of. My friend Molly likes girl on girl.

Here is where I am going with this dicussion. Molly cannot even contain herself sexually when watching 2 women have sex. She gets wet and wild from watching something as simple as a deep kiss. However, she is ABSOLUTELY opposed to exploring having a F/F experience.

I am wondering- is this common? That you like the idea of something, or are uber aroused by something that you would never, ever want to encounter in a real life situation? I too am erotically aroused by girl on girl action, but I would be open to exploring that. And all the things that I find sexually attractive in a porn movie... guess what? I also find them sexually attractive in reality. Keep in mind that I am not talking extreme stuff... for example, a female may get aroused by a or attack scene, but would naturally never want to be in that position in real life.


rockwriter58 56M
1389 posts
9/24/2005 5:13 pm

Well, this is an interesting and insightful post. I would have to say, however, from a male viewpoint, that if it is worth fantasizing about... it is worth pursuing... or at least saying "yes" to it if it ever came your way.

I've never had an inkling that a FMF or MFM trio would be possible, but both excite me. (However, I will tell you that I am not interested in women kissing each other. It doesn't do anything for me. I realize I'm in the male minority when I say that though.) However, I've resigned both to fantasyland.

And as for porn (and by its implication, masturbation) I'm glad you helped your friend out there. She'll be thanking you for a long time on that one.


rm_YourManInMn 45M
8 posts
9/24/2005 9:43 pm

Girl on girl kisses are hot in several levels. First and foremost, from a guys standpoint, is the pure eye candy that is unfolding in front of me. There's a certain soft and sensualness that drives me wild. Another angle is that each of the girls know exactly what they want. That to me is hot.

As for something happening in real life - that's where the excitement really lies. That idea of a fantasy can come true is a huge rush.

Great topic of discussion.

mnfun952 102M

9/25/2005 4:08 pm

great post... and perhaps she is reluctant to ADMIT to thinking about experimenting... I wonder how she would feel if you and your other friend began kissing in front of her? or you began using your toy(s) on your other friend while she watched.... how would she react then?

rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
9/26/2005 10:42 pm

Well, with me, there are the fantasies I look forward to realizing, and there are those I keep for masturbation purposes only. The latter are ones I wouldn't, or couldn't ever realize.

So yes, there are fantasies I would never, ever want to encounter in a real life situation, as there are fantasies, like The Naked Leading the Blind, that I'd like to make happen.

(BTW - Thanks for the girl-snogging Sarah Gellar pic! I'm thinking this Molly would jump at the chance of having Buffy-sex.)

goodluvin9 50M

11/29/2005 11:18 am

Hi watchme,
I to love porn, and love to watch the mmf threeways or moreways. I love anal and double penetration. I have done anal many times, but never double pent. , Just the thought of it happening makes me rock hard and near and on an earlier post of yours, yes I think its great that you are a passionate woman and wear your feelings on your sleeve, however I think this would scare many typical men away if exhibited early on in a relationship. I loved reading your blogs---Greg

rm_Tenplay66 50M
1 post
6/11/2007 1:52 am

Try not to read too much into the fact that your first blog entry to which I have replied is on the subject of girl-on-girl ...

You asked why someone wouldn't want to realize a fantasy. Perhaps your friend fears that reality won't live up to the expectations set by the fantasy. Of course, no risk; no reward, but some people are just not risk-takers.

In this specific case, societal norms may be working against her. The environment she was raised in may have taught her that homosexuality is wrong.

So, is it common? I of course cannot speak for anyone but myself. But, if you are keeping count, put me down in the "Molly" column. I have several fantasies that I have not pursued.

Now that I think about it, I don't have a single good reason for not pursuing them. There are plenty not-so-good reasons, and maybe I've been letting them get in the way. Huh.

Thanks for getting me thinking.

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