"never had any complaints"  

warmmylfncookies 55F
17 posts
6/18/2006 1:51 pm

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"never had any complaints"

Alright, I admit it, I a size queen, I see nothing at all wrong with preferring men with larger members. Some men prefer women with shaved or hairy, small tits or larger, athletic and toned or round and curvy. All preferences, which is good, we all know we like.

What drives me crazy is when a man replies to my size preference with " well I've not had any complaints" when he doesn't quite measure up my size desires.

Unless a woman is a cold hearted iceberg, of course she isn't going to complain. Women are acutely aware that a man's performance and sexual prowess is an essential part of his identity and psych well being. Think about it men, have you EVER had a woman say, 'well that sucked thanks for nothing pencil dick' or 'geez, what was that?'.

So, 'never had any complaints' holds as water as a sieve. That doesn't mean you lack ability in bed, it simply means either you've pleased a women who doesn't have a larger size preference, or they are simply being polite. Remember the faked orgasm part of "When Harry met Sally"????

warmmylfncookies 55F

7/2/2006 6:07 am


Women by nature (for the most part, there are exceptions) are nurturers. If they are truly interested in a partner but the sex is somewhat lacking, they may 'fake it till they make it', nurturing the relationship. I do not think that in random sexual encounters it would matter if the woman was faking it or not, but thats a personal opinion.

Not everyone is as in touch with their sexuality as we would all like for them to be nor do they have to capability to freely express it, even those here on this site. Additionally, being physically and intellectually attracted to a partner does not necessarily translate to a great sexual experience. There are so many variables and innuendos that make or break a memorable sexual experience.


darthbanker 60M

7/2/2006 5:17 am

I think most men are selfish and arrogant lovers. The satisfaction of themselves is what leads to frustrated women. Patience, practice and preformance can exceed size. But, you are right, lazy big johns can do your thing without having to work as hard. Some of us "normal" guys just have to work a little harder and be sensitive to the partners need.

joeridge06 49M
1 post
6/27/2006 3:03 pm

Hey Cookies...
I agree. Size does matter. But MissAnnThrope presents a valid point. I guess it all depends on the physiology and pain (or pleasure??) tolerance of the individual. As for women faking orgasms...it would be very difficult for a man to tell the difference, but exactly why would a woman even want to fake it? If she is in it for the pleasure, why not guide the partner to helping her reach orgasm if he is not hiting the right spots? I have never been able to understand why a woman would fake it. A sudden epiphany that she is not attracted to the partner maybe?

MattyS19740 42M
3 posts
6/21/2006 3:52 pm

Warm....you know what you want and stick by it. Yes, for females, size does matter. And yes guys, orgasms can be faked. Trust me, Warm is very intelligent and works in the medical field. Hence, she knows psysiologically what she is talking about.

warmmylfncookies 55F

6/19/2006 4:56 pm

DIV...........kegels are VERY effective. I would know......I am a woman and a nurse. Its a physiological fact, not my opinion., I am not sure what you base your experiences of kegels on? Besides all it takes is the insertion of a finger and ask a woman to perform a kegel, a practiced woman will massage your finger......and not all women gush (female ejaculation), heck not all women even have orgasms. Personally my first squirt wasn't until I was 35.
Don't be so testy...no one is taking credit for anything. Just stating facts.

8328 posts
6/19/2006 6:15 am

    Quoting warmmylfncookies:
    ah but DIV, not all women gush.....and heard of the song "pussy" control? ..wink.. its all muscle there, with practice of the ole kegal exercise, women can accomplish great muscle response adding even more to the 'illusion'if thats what they wish.
Sorry, I didn't qualify my statement.

The women I've been with DID gush and that can't be faked. Also, this was with more than one woman.

I see what you are trying to say, but it truly has no bearing on my experiences.

The type of women I've been with hardly experiment with kegel's or anything of that nature and I'm very good at telling what's real and what's not.

Sometimes you women give yourselves too much credit.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

warmmylfncookies 55F

6/19/2006 3:47 am

ah but DIV, not all women gush.....and heard of the song "pussy" control? ..wink.. its all muscle there, with practice of the ole kegal exercise, women can accomplish great muscle response adding even more to the 'illusion'if thats what they wish.

angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
6/18/2006 9:38 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
6/18/2006 3:41 pm

Now, I have that problem in the other direction. I'm not a size queen. I know what length is going to hit bottom and cause me massive pain. I know how wide I can stretch, without it hurting like hell. I get the guys who are way too large telling me, they can make it fit, I'll love the feeling, etc. No, I won't. I've had to kick more than one man out of my bed for being too big and hurting me. What makes them think they're going to be any different?

I swear, they're like kids in a toy store. They want what they can't have.

warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
6/18/2006 2:33 pm

Good luck with your preferences. I think that we all seek different things in sex and sexuality and we are all entitled to have a view and share it. My view is very different - that I am open-minded about appearances and celebrate human diversity in both sexes, since the real sexiness comes from within.

Both views are valid and can exist side by side.

And no, I wouldn't be so facile as to say no-one has ever complained.

warm xx

8328 posts
6/18/2006 2:31 pm

I don't have a problem with it.

I'm picky about alot of things in women.

It comes with the territory.

As far as fake orgasms go....it's pretty easy to tell when giving a woman multiples that they are real. The muscle spasms can't be faked. Neither can the gushing. The body doesn't lie, even when the woman wants to.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

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