My Honest and Worthy Right Hand  

warmandsexy52 64M
7186 posts
9/18/2005 3:00 pm

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My Honest and Worthy Right Hand

I am a professional with a public persona and responsibility for others. It presents me with a dilemma. I would like to be open, let people on AdultFriendFinder see who I am at first glance. Honestly, I wouldn’t scare you off the website, and it’s certainly not shyness, but I do understand the importance of discretion. So my image is in shadow with ‘ask me for a photo’. Some of us are obliged to stay in shadow. Oh, you lucky ones who have a choice!

A picture, however, is worth a thousand words, they say, so I started to think about alternatives. I reflected on all eligible body parts. Am I trying to convey that I am more than the sum total of my genitals? I decided I was. Were my feet worthy of consideration? I decided that they probably constituted a minority taste - roughly one in nineteen million and that’s because I need them to walk with. And so it went, an anatomical adventure of wonder, reflection and rejection until I ended up with a shortlist of two ‒ my eyes and my right hand.

Before the final selection my eyes were hot favourites. They are, after all, the windows to my soul. I remembered the occasion at the monastery of Saint Barnabas, high above the Gulf of Corinth, when the old woman in black came up to me out of the blue, held both my hands and told me, as translated by my Greek friend, that I had very kind eyes. I was a little spooked and a lot flattered. I know my eyes convey a range of expressions and emotions, but which would I choose for a still photograph, and by selecting would it reflect who I was with total honesty?

So it was the underdog that won the day. My right hand. If I wanted an honest portrayal of who I was and where I was coming from this was the part of the body to choose. Being right-handed (you guessed!) my right hand has been involved in practically every human activity I had ever been involved in. Once when I was in my twenties a gypsy came to the apartment door, selling lavender for luck. Now you might be a bit sceptical about this, but she read my palm for nothing other than the cost of a sprig of lavender. On the doorstep. Just a quick glance was enough and she reeled off the next twenty years of my life, in retrospect with accuracy, from a glimpse at my right hand. My right hand has written everything I have ever expressed. Now with a key board the left hand does a bit of teamwork, but the right hand does the drafting and takes the lead. It can draw pictures passably well, can paint, albeit out of practice, can pluck and strum guitar strings, can fix things around the house (not a favourite activity) and of course is well experienced in many sexual delights.

Most movingly, it was my right hand that communicated with my 102 year-old grandmother as she lay in the twilight zone between life and death. Sentient, but too weak to talk, we could express our presence to each other finger on palm, stroking gently but softly, communicating.

Never being front of house. Simply getting on with life in the background and sharing experience with me in the fullest of ways. So there you have it ‒ my honest and worthy right hand.

But then my very English reserve kicks in. Perhaps people will think it too strange if I present my hand as me. Photographed on its own it’s just like Thing from the Addams Family. Even over guitar strings, adding that little bit of context, still seems a bit wierd.

Ah well, back to the grey silhouette and ‘ask me for a photo.’

Pity!


SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
9/26/2005 4:39 pm

Perhaps I should use another route to converse with my sweet warmandsexy aside from this particular blog, but I have found it to have certain "setimental" value to me now. I hope that the persuasion mentioned above has led him to keep his "right hand" posted, as I love the pic. It is charming and shows a side of him that expresses more than just the average shot of a groin or even some mugs might appear to show. But I am a bit concerned. I have tried several times over the last couple of days to visit his site since being invited to "join" his private network and have been told by the powers that rule the website that he has turned his profile off. I am quite distressed. Please tell me this is an error. I am in need of connecting with my warmandsexy friend and it seems he has vanished from my world.

I will be looking to see if he re-enters just as quickly as he left, for I already miss him dearly. So, if by chance someone stumbles upon this note... could you pass him a nice big hug and kiss for me?
~SDA

~Angel


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
9/24/2005 1:14 pm

I have finally been persuaded. Things happen as they are meant to do. And if I've got it wrong, you will tell me ..... won't you? warm xx


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
9/23/2005 5:01 pm

Such a precious gift, dearest angel. Heartfelt thanks. warm xx


SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
9/23/2005 1:42 pm

psst . . . I left a little something of a blog for you . . .I hope you enjoy it.

your "right hand" inspired me.

~SDA

~Angel


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
9/22/2005 2:42 pm

You see SweetAngel, how unassuming my poor right is and how I have taken him for granted! How negligent have I been in missing out all those things you mention.

Your blogs are a joy to visit. You write so well. If anyone else is reading this post just click on SDA's 'view my blog'. There's quality there. warm xx


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
9/22/2005 2:39 pm

You see SweetAngel, how unassuming my poor right is and how I have taken him for granted! How negligent have I been in missing out all those things you mention.

Your blogs are a joy to visit. You write so well. If anyone else is reading this post just click on SDA's 'read my blog'. There's quality there. warm xx


SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
9/21/2005 5:16 pm

Warmandsexy ~ I actually find your right to be quite attractive. Out of the many things you have mentioned you failed to include several other things that a right-handed person would do with said honest and worthy hand in photo. It is also a picture of the part of you that would reach out first to grasp the one you are with when they fall. It is the first hand to touch a woman's back as you guide her into the room before you. It would be the hand that you use the lead her onto the dance floor when a song plays during dinner that makes you want to share a moment with the one you are with. It is the hand that will reach for face when pull a woman close to you for a kiss. All in all, for those women wanting to get to know you and glimpse a part of you that is, I think your honest and worthy right was a fine choice. As it will be something that any woman would know well after spending an intimate evening with you.
~SweetAngel
PS > thanks for always stopping by and visiting me on my blogs, it is always nice to see your shadow grace my ramblings.

~Angel


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