Day 17 - Needing opinions and feedback  

wantmoreluvin 50M
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6/16/2005 7:10 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Day 17 - Needing opinions and feedback


I missed getting an entry in yesterday due to being overloaded at work with equipment failures and poor planning on the part of others. The initial slow response to my profile has switched into high gear now. As of today, I've had 307 views with over 50 matching AND actually in my area. I've got four women that I'm in steady contact with.

There's one other lady that I've mentioned before, that I was supposed to have lunch with a few days ago. She's definitely the most beautiful and real one of the 50 so far. I've sent her a couple of e-mails the last two days, the first saying I was sorry our schedules didn't work out and tossed in some more background information on myself. The second was yesterday morning to ask if she thought her schedule might allow for lunch today. No response out of either of those e-mails, yet. She's a single parent amd working mother, so she's got her hands full. I've got her cell number on my caller ID, but being a bit old fashioned in some ways I haven't called her. I asked her in the second e-mail, if she'd mind if I called her.

The good ones usually seem to lose interest, when they find out that at 38 I've got two EX's , three daughters ( 20,16,8 ) and my oldest has two sons. Yes indeed, they call me "grandpa".

For those of you reading this, I'd like some honest feedback. What is too much contact when you're trying to get to know someone? How do you know if you're "pushing your luck"? If you were in this situation and had her phone number, would you call her? There are plenty of fish in the sea as they say and I've had lots of nibbles. I'd just hate to miss out on the chance to get to know this one lady better and see if things click.

OK help me out here. Post a comment and let me know what you think.

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