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My favorite A.F.F. blogger, so_un4gttble (a.k.a. Sabrina), put up a post recently commenting on how most people generally don't know how to take compliments well. And she's right. In my case, whether I handle it well or not depends at least in part on what the compliment is about. If it's something I did, I usually have a gracious and appropriate response. For example, if a woman tells me I'm a good kisser, I'll say "thank you" (or some more elaborate variation on the theme) and probably return the compliment.
But if she says I have nice eyes (or something along those lines), well, I don't really know what to say. I mean, I'm glad you like them and all, but I really didn't do anything to make them that way. And whether you like them or not, there's not all that much I could do about it anyway.
Similarly, I've had a couple of recent lovers who really liked my cock, and said so. One of them, who didn't like the word "cock", said I have a "perfect penis". For some reason I found that phrase especially amusing, but that's not the point. And I've never thought my cock was all that impressive. I'm not what you'd call "well hung". Decently hung, yes, and thick enough to matter, apparently, but at 6 1/2 inches, I know I'm not huge. But that's also not the point. The point is that as far as I know, I haven't done anything to turn my cock into whatever it was that these women liked about it. That's just how it is, and while I'm glad they like it, it seems a little dishonest to accept the compliment, because it seems like I'm taking credit for something I didn't have anything to do with. On the other hand, not accepting it is, at best, ungracious. So in reply to the cock compliments, I decided to say "Thank you, I grew it myself." Corny, but at the time it seemed to work.