Survey question for (primarily) men  

want2pleasureu5 48M
30 posts
11/28/2005 6:19 pm

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Survey question for (primarily) men

This question is primarily for the men, although ladies should feel free to chime in with any opinions they have.

There are many men on this site because they are not getting sex regularly and/or what they do get has become routine. I would like to know

how often are men getting any at home and has it become routine?

I will start. I get sex about once every 2 weeks over the last 6 months or so, sometimes as often as once a week but just as often once every 3 weeks. I cant remember the last time I had sex twice in a week.

I get a blow job roughly once every 2 to 3 months. When I do get sex, I can almost count out the steps in the routine.

How does this compare to others on here?

gnr8nrg 46M

11/28/2005 7:45 pm

I'm single right now so I have sex here and there. My last girlfriend I lived with, and we had sex many times a day. She said she would never turn me down and so I tested it and she never did. When I moved (125 miles)it went to every other weekend and we did it as much as we could. We had great sexual chemistry, but I actually wanted her to resist me so I'd work harder. The grass is always greener I suppose.
I've read all of your posts, and to me it sounds like you want results right now. It takes time to get to know eachother, and the women do get lots of mail. As far as women not wanting married men it depends on variables. Some women want to call you and know you'd be right over. Marriage limits their options, but married women know you would be safer because you have something to lose as they do. Most important is to be honest with yourself and others, good luck.

SpngeWrthyBob 52M
3 posts
12/7/2005 1:32 pm

Well stated gnr8nrg. I have been married for 8 years now second time around. Once a month seems par and as far as BJs go it has been a while. I religously give her oral to orgasm everytime we have sex.
Take it slow sounds like a good plan. Sometimes when your not "looking" things just happen. Don't push it, wait for the natural flow of things. Some women move at different speeds.

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