summary of AFF experience thus far  

wanderlust1176 41F
93 posts
4/13/2005 9:19 pm

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summary of AFF experience thus far

Alright, bear with me. Cynicism and bitterness generally flow naturally with me, I myself often do not notice it.
So. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
The good: I met an awesome couple here in town a few weeks ago, turns out we know eachother! Thus is the danger when trying to lurk secretly in a relatively small town. I also met a nice man, have seen a couple of times, perhaps will see again.
The bad: Literally dozens of emails from men who seem to think you are ready to open the door to your HOME and let some guy in that you have only typed a couple of sentences to. Get Real. And another thing, if you have nothing to offer as a man or a lover, why do you bother? Do you think I won't notice?
The ugly: Here is something ugly, but also amusing. The pick up lines have all changed along with the change of venue. What used to be "Do you come here often?" is now "I just love going down, can stay down there for hours." This is especially pitiful when it is in response to "How big is your cock?" I have also found it to be the warning sign of low stamina. Am I wrong??? Yes, some of the time I am, thank heaven.
All and all, it could be worse. Thankfully, the number of messages I've gotten from smart mouth little punks is low. The couples I have spoken with are mostly very attractive people and sincere. There is a surprising number of young, attractive, single females. All this tells me that the decent people of the world have begun giving Internet dating an honest chance. It's about time!
And AdultFriendFinder has definitely made it easy to meet people. I have only had a profile on here for a few weeks, and I've been thrown in the path of enough men to already feel a bit scorned! At least I'm not bored.

Tala4u2 54M  
2957 posts
4/14/2005 1:43 am

Yes it is fun Blogging here Wanderlust. It is sorta like being in a club you are there to meet people you don't know but instead of a dance floor or a bar with drinks the Blogg is the social activity to meet and greet.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

ExcitedSenses 38M

4/14/2005 9:11 am

It's a lot easier for women than men. On this site, it's way easier for us to be cynical and bitter. Yeah I meet some people who are hot for me, but most of them are so far away. There are barely any women in my area, and half of them are lesbian (which, if you knew where I lived, is not surprising). In my observation this site is probably best for lesbians, or married women looking to hook up with each other. They feel able to be more honest with their situation, and they don't have to approach people and find out that they might not be lesbian. Also there are some unsatisfied married women here, which to me has always been sad. I hope when I get married my woman is always satisfied. But not all guys are like that I guess. Most straight women can just go to the bar and look pretty and eventually some sleazeball they don't even want will go up and talk to them and they can get laid. The ones that are here are usually especially horny or just arent the type who have time to go out to bars and such. The men here are varied. There are a lot of different motivations, but most include wanting to have some quality sex. Just be careful. You should however, not mess around with people. If you are actually getting along with someone don't keep talking online, meet somewhere public, or you'll never get a true impression of them. Best of luck sexy. Wish I was somewhere where the women are like you.

wanderlust1176 41F

4/14/2005 9:18 am

thanks, the compliment is not lost on me.

cochise226922 46M

4/17/2005 8:50 am

First I have to say I find you to be quite fascinating wanderlust. And a belated congrats on popping your blog cherry! I just did so as well! Well, if I had a cherry...
Yes the internet seems to be the place to be for the dating community these days, that is if you don't have the time or money to go clubbing every weekend. I also tend to be bitter and cynical about the world today and about AdultFriendFinder as well - I prefer to refer to it as being a realist. The happy world I lived in as a child seems to have changed drastically over the years and possibly has disappeared forever. The nice people and kind sensitive women seem to be, in everyday life and here at AdultFriendFinder, bi-sexuals (lesbians in disguise), true lesbians or married women looking for satisfaction or variety (of the female persuasion) as ExcitedSenses states. The occasional single women I do meet actually looking for a man are too far away, more bbw then they advertise, or just not grounded in terms of how they deal with and what they can realistically expect from most men. I blame all this on all the jackass men that have come before me.
That being said I have had good, bad and ugly experiences as well here through AdultFriendFinder, but refuse to be beaten down by the multitude of the latter two. I still hold out hope of finding someone that I can have a healthy sexual and emotional relationship with and will keep going through the good, bad and ugly until I find her.

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