ousting bella  

wanderlust1176 41F
93 posts
4/22/2005 8:41 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

ousting bella

Interesting point made...that I of all people would feel bad for her, when I have myself been so severe on the opposite sex. Point well taken, but allow me to make a couple of points of my own:
I have not revealed the names of the men that I have discovered to be phony in their intent, I know not whether they are phony in what they look like as well.
My sympathy for bella is simply restricted to this blogging board. I was not aware that she seems to also be accused of lying to her potential suitors, and though I don't support that, I have read nothing that would serve as proof that she has done any such thing.

cochise226922 46M

4/22/2005 12:26 pm

There is either something missing here or this is an answer to someone else's blog. Either way please explain...and where is my bella?! I miss her so!

expatbrit49 62M

4/22/2005 2:53 pm

Wander you make a good point but poor Bellas problem was making the same mistake twice, not only were here blog pictures not her there is some debate as to if her profile pictures are her or someone else.. either way "she" did write well

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

GonadMadamFilth 44M
153 posts
4/22/2005 4:31 pm

You know, Bella_ could have been that one thing that you seem to despise the most: a lying, dishonest, malintentioned MAN.

wanderlust1176 41F

4/22/2005 11:22 pm

it's true, she couldve been a man. I never followed her blogs, so I have no impression of that one way or another. But what couldve been equally true is that she just doesn't have any confidence in herself. And it isn't that I despise them, I despise that they would insult my intelligence. When it comes right down to it, I feel just as sorry for those men as I do for Bella, whomever he or she might be.


4/22/2005 11:26 pm

Do you ever stop to think that maybe she craved attention and in some misguided way she didn`t think she could get it any other way,, I do not condone decieving people, we all have our reasons for being on this site,,just possibly she did all this to get the attention, admiration she felt could not get in real life

mygmyg 59M

4/23/2005 9:28 am

Wanderlust, I am a big fan of Bella and her Blogs. The prickly point for me is the "need" to "OUT" Bella. The whistleblower,I feel was compelled by something other than exposing what was going on, but was motivated by the popularity of the Bella blog.
Bella routinely had 8-900 views in one day one a new post. A very low count in the comments, but views were over the top. On the day of her blog shutting down, the last blog which commented on the revelations,in 18 hours over 1250 views, but only 20 comments.
Like a t.v. if you don't like the content/disagree, don't select the channel!! Choices, make your own.

Wanderlust, admire your nonjudgemental maturity and acceptance of others. I think this is the essence of what the site has to be about!!

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
4/23/2005 7:48 pm

The whistleblower,I feel was compelled by something other than exposing what was going on, but was motivated by the popularity of the Bella blog.

I felt that very thing when I first got a wiff of what was transpiring. I commented about it several times in sexyfitwomans blog. No one has answered back in there yet, but I am watching to see how many deny that jealousy wasn't involved.

pokerpoker2 47M

4/27/2005 12:03 am

I was the whistleblower, and I'm a dude! I just happen to be a BIG Bellucci fan and got tired of people being fooled by the pics. It would be bad enough to post someone else's picture @ a sex site (never mind someone famous) but at least say, "Hey, that's not really me" when time after time people comment on "How beautiful you are." etc. I'm just about the truth. That was my reason for saying what I said. Look at how many people were fooled, embarrassed and mad. The truth can hurt, but at least it is real.


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