The cats out of the bag!  

wanderlust01970 50M
20 posts
6/27/2006 7:49 am

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6/30/2006 12:59 pm

The cats out of the bag!

When Jen mentioned that she had a secret rendevous over the weekend and didn't want me to ask any questions....I just figured it was her way of testing me at this early juncture in our relationship. So, I respected her wishes. But, I had to ask her yesterday out of curiousity. Well, the cats out of the bag! She's bi-sexual. She was worried that that might bother me, or I'd be turned off. She admitted to liking woman more than men, but once in awhile needed a man for sex. Well, don't I feel a bit used??!! I'm very angry with her, not because of her sexual preference, that doesn't bother me at all. I respect individual preferences. I just feel used.

How would you feel about this? Doesn't this make you angry to feel that you were used for sex, or that your #2 in her list of preferences? Am I overreacting? Am I not thinking clearly on tis matter?

It's OK in my book to be bi-sexual or bi-curious or bi-anything...I don't care! Whatever, my mood will blow over...I'll have to think about this when I'm in a calmer state of mind.

rm_1SweetBitch 55F
8575 posts
6/29/2006 9:14 am

If I knew that she was attracted to women up front I would be fine with her only using me. If everything is talked about up front we all have a choice to make...either we stay and be used...or we move on. If this was not talked about up front...I would be very pissed

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

wanderlust01970 replies on 6/30/2006 12:59 pm:
Hey SB, today I'm in a calmer state of mind. I spoke with Jen the other day and expressed my anger, not yelling at her, but in a calmer demeanor. She understood where I was coming from and she said she was sorry. We will get together again and talk again.

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