Oops Day 'Cums'  

vrec_dawn 39M
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7/8/2006 8:27 am

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7/10/2006 7:02 pm

Oops Day 'Cums'

Well, it has now been a week. So here is one sexy photo of me in my new black satin pajama pants (one of my recent splurges that only just arrived) and one answer to a question:

What would your ideal relationship entail?

Wow, I was thinking that would be a tough question, but once I get down to it, it really isn't. My ideal relationship would be where we both communicated, both let each other into our lives, but also both retained some elements of our individuality so that we never become codependent. We would both be strong, so that we could be there for each other when one of us feels weak. And we would be okay with that, always willing to lend a hug or a shoulder to cry on as readily as words of encouragement and love. We would push each other to occasionally try new things, to break out of our molds, to dare risk what we fear we aren't good enough to do. We would have enough in common to feel a close bond of things we could share, but enough differences that there would always be something interesting about each other, instead of just looking into a mirror. There would be love, of course. And good sex, of course. But there would be romance too. That tight feeling in your stomach when you see them. The dance your heart does when they greet you at the door with a surprise. That sexy lucky grin every time you run your hand over their stomach. Those constant little joys that make life sparkle. There would be touching. Lots of touching. And snuggling. We would share a fair balance between responsability and fun. But most of all, most important of all, we would always be good friends.

druidrocker 62F

7/8/2006 9:08 am

wow - but I think that mirror thing counts me out - or maybe not

vrec_dawn replies on 7/8/2006 11:44 am:
I'd say it seems like we still have enough differences for it to be interesting, even though we do have a lot in common as well.

Iwakura16Eyes 37F

7/10/2006 1:53 pm


too bad some of us gave up on those things out of sickness for being hurt too damn much....

*begins to think she looks like a gigantic doormat*

vrec_dawn replies on 7/10/2006 3:57 pm:
Yeah. **sigh**

I mean, it'd be nice. But just because it's my idea of an ideal relationship doesn't mean I ever expect to find it. It'd be nice, but...

Sometimes I feel like turning my house into a commune for lonely people hurt in bad relationships. We could give each other group hugs whenever we need to feel loved and sleep in one giant bed like when we were kids and our parents made us feel safe from our nightmares. And we could give each other support and have classes on how to turn our lives around. Wouldn't that be a sight?

Iwakura16Eyes 37F

7/10/2006 6:20 pm

*slouches in her chair*

forgive me, dear vrec, if my mind immediately perverted that into a giant kitty pile.... (hey! I still pictured it at yer house!!!)

....BUT... not quite so much... *weg*

vrec_dawn replies on 7/10/2006 7:08 pm:
Hmm ... that has merits too. Part of the healing?

Have you ever read ... schiznit ... now I can't remember ... I think it was the Anita Blake series by Laurell K. Hamilton ... with the wereleopard pard. Crap. Memory like a sieve, so any one of those details could be off. But, um, yeah ... never made me want to be one more. All that nice touching. (And if you're totally lost because you haven't read, then you'll have to research if you care because hell if I can explain. He he he.)

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