OMG! What a fun time!  

vrec_dawn 39M
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5/6/2006 11:58 am

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5/7/2006 5:57 pm

OMG! What a fun time!

So I went down with a friend to the Mad M&G at The Dry Bean. Wow. That was ... loud!

I'm sure that everyone must think I'm a totally quiet guy. And I'll admit, I am a bit reserved. But I also have this thing where I can totally pick up on the slighest sound because my ears will lock onto the loudest noise. So when there's loud music going on, my brain will totally cut you out of the reception if you aren't louder. There's nothing I can do about it. That's just the way my nervous system is rigged I guess. So I totally can't hold a conversation in a loud room. And the two M&Gs I've been to so far? Way loud! Too much for my brain to filter. So I'm sure I come off as being a lot more reserved when I am, when in fact it's actually just that the environment makes me give up on trying to hold conversations.

I'm thinking I've got to organize a M&G in a library or something... Maybe hold a toy party in my house. Well, maybe once the ex is moved out anyway.

Anywho, now Lube was a fairly good band. Some of their songs really rocked, even if they all seemed to be other people's songs. At least they totally got into it and the lead vocalist even seemed to have fun getting into the personalities of the real singers he was duplicating. It was great, if not deafening. And that was fun.

And crashing at a hotel instead of trying to drive back home afterwards was a way good idea, even if (or especially because) a certain someone was cracking me up on the way back.

But I'll tell you, while the M&G itself was okay, it was totally the good time with friends before, during, and after that made it such an awesome time.

I mean driving with a friend is way better than driving alone. Even if I have to drive her minivan, which actually drives pretty darn good for a minivan. I was surprised. And man are those brakes way better than mine. But I'd like to think that I've fairly well proven that I'm actually a pretty good driver and it's just my car that's posessed.

And then catching up with some awesome people and getting a tour of the sex toy shops in Madison was great. (Which was both fun and depressing. Fun because, hey, they're sex toys and entertaining outfits. Depressing because, hell, no one to play with and not really sure I want to get into a 'relationship' just now just for someone to play with.) And smut & eggs is a great way to start the day. Who knew? A little seedy. If I owned the place, I'd totally try for a cleaner look with better TVs. But still, damn they give you lots of bacon to go with your 'sausage'. I haven't eaten that much for breakfast in ages. And with a couple of strong white russians to wash it down? Who needs lunch? Thank god they don't water those down like so many places do.

(Though as a side note, it's amazing how many places now consider a 'white russian' as heavily kahlua based. When I first started, if it had any kahlua in it, it was a 'black' russian. And a 'white' russian was pure vodka. Now sometimes they even skip the vodka all together. Hello? Why do you think it's called a russian? Ah well. Still good drinkin'.)

So hey, I haven't had that much fun ... well ... maybe ever. As sad as that sounds.

It's funny really. I've noticed that the local AdultFriendFinder groups I'm in seem to split up into two categories of people. Those who are there to fuck, and those who are there to make friends. There's nothing wrong with either, I mean this is AdultFriendFinder. I just fall into the latter category. Not that I wouldn't oppose a good time with the right person/people, if I felt okay with it, but that's totally not what I'm about right now. I don't come out to these things to get some. I come out to make friends and have fun, without necessarily having 'fun'.

Though I have to say, after watching a bit of smut and talking a with people who have lived less sheltered lives than me (and who hasn't?) I'm thinking that I really need to get out and try a few new things. That and expand my porn collection. And maybe get a few new toys.

New things to totally put on my Wow, I wonder what that's like list:
* Blindfolds
* Friendly bondage
* Women who need towels

singleagain53578 46F

5/6/2006 12:34 pm

LMMFAO... I had a great time too. And DAYUM, was that bad loud and the place crowded but we were able to see Lioness and Madctman before they left and then take the "Sex Toy Store Tour" with them. That was a blast and I got my new bullet. Can't wait to try it out later. And I mean much much later as I am dead tired from not getting any sleep at all.

I just blogged about the night too in my perspective. [post post]

Now what do you mean that my van drives nice for a MINI van? Your car is the evil Kristine. Mine is a family vehicle. It's spose to be a smooth ride! LOL


singleagain53578 46F

5/6/2006 12:35 pm

Hmmm I wonder why that didn't work? The link to my post. I am trying again, if it doesnt work this time, just delete this post.

[post 336877]

vrec_dawn replies on 5/6/2006 1:28 pm:
Well, it worked now. And yeah, that was a blast!

I also have a new favorite color: lime green.

And no offense, but a minivan is still way bigger than a car. Even if it does handle well. And your turn radius is way less than my car. Plus the acceleration is kind of lacking when you need it. And your cruise control kinda sucks. Still, for a minivan, it's pretty good.

Granted, my car is possessed, so take that with a grain of salt. But at least it gets you where you're going in good time. He he he he he.

Actually, my car is a little better behaved lately. I a bottle of transmission fluid add-in to rejuvinate old cars, and now it's a little better. The gas pedal still sucks though, and that's the real problem. It sticks when you lightly press it so that nothing happens and you're lucky if you even creep along. Then all of the sudden the pressure breaks the stickiness and BAM it catches up with where you're actually pressing it to, and ZOOM it takes off like a bat out of hell. He he he. Entertaining when you're the driver. Scary when you're a backseat (or passenger seat) driver. The trick is to just point it in the right direction and make sure you've got a clear run before you go. He he he. I've gotten so used to it I forget what normal cars are like.

gentelmanjim53 63M

5/7/2006 3:38 pm

Vrec, You are into a year of firsts for you and I applaud you for the strength of character you have shown and the gentleman you are for going with single so she was not alone. I would have but my work schedule changed at the last minute and had no choice. Give yourself a pat on the back for being a good friend and man and I am glad you had a good time.

singleagain53578 46F

5/9/2006 4:24 am

    Quoting singleagain53578:
    Hmmm I wonder why that didn't work? The link to my post. I am trying again, if it doesnt work this time, just delete this post.

    [post 336877]
Meaning my lime green coconut bra? LMAO

Yeah and what Jim says, thanks for going with me. Although you were awfully quiet at the bar! LOL


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