Does It Hurt?  

vrec_dawn 39M
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5/23/2006 5:23 pm

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5/24/2006 4:53 pm

Does It Hurt?

No ... really ... does it?

Every so often I think about how hot it'd be for a woman to do me for a change. And since men only have one hole worth aiming at, and under the right circumstances can feel very nice, well, it doesn't leave many options.

And it looks hot!

But does it hurt?

Because I'm not very much in to pain, and I've got to say as far as diameter goes, back there is rather narrow.

Maybe with one thin enough? And with a lot of lube?



I don't know. Maybe it's one of those things that seems like a good idea until you actually do it. Life is funny that way some times.

But I've got to say, as far as sexual fantasies go, it's definately one that's piqued my curiosity at least.

Thoughts? Suggestions? Comments? Experiences?


evilgothgirl 51F

5/23/2006 6:04 pm

On a complete serious note....

Yes it does...some...but I love it. I was like you till about 5 months ago. Now I think I am an addict.

Go slow, be patient, relax, and holy cripes..use lube...lotz of it.

I always thought those that said,,,"you get the best orgasms" were full of it....well...it's true.

Hygiene...make sure you have a BM, maybe a small fleet enema, wash real well, use a condom,,,and never go from the back door to the vagina. You are asking for some major worries and just an infection does not cover it.

Play nice, play safe....and have a great time.

Candy Kisses and Sugar Coated Sex...~~~Evil~~~666


amandableau 63M

5/23/2006 6:52 pm

Hey man. As a fifty-two year old, gay man, I feel eminently qualified to "fill you in", if you'll pardon a very bad pun.

It helps if your lover is into rimming you, so that you are already familiar with the sensation of having slippy-cheeks, and liking it.

At first, if you don't take it easy, it hurts like hell! But, before I suggest how you go about it, I have to tell you that, straight or gay, a man who has never had an orgasm while anally penetrated has missed A LOT! I'm talking explosions here, that come again and again! It's as close as a man will ever come to experiencing multiple orgasms. If you have any heart problems, don't do it. I'm not kidding.

That being said, it's best to do it, at least the first time, yourself. Not necessarily alone, but YOU control what goes in and how fast. I cannot stress strongly enough the vital importance of a GOOD LUBE! It's easier to do the first time lying on your back, on a bed. Protect your sheets(this is lube and your butt, don't forget), relax, and gently massage as you lube the immaculately clean(THOROUGH,hot shower first)area all around the target. Use your finger longways to slide the lube over your hole and to heat the lube up. Occasionally dip the tip of your finger inside, but concentrate more on the sensation of the lube, the stimulation of the delicate, sensitive skin, and the fact that it's so deliciously DIRTY!

Use one hand on your ass and the other on your cock, as the stimulation of one will fire up the other. Generously lube up the probe of your choice (choose one by circumference, but remember it's like body-building, no pain no gain)and place the tip at the opening. Depending on which probe you use, you can place the base of it between the heels of your feet, or place the base into a fold in the towel under you (remember your sheets?), and use your body weight to hold it in place. Use the tip of the dildo to massage the opening by slowly thrusting against it. When you feel ready, gently allow your ass to LET the dildo in. Don't try to push the dildo inside, let your ass wrap around it.

Now, here's the hard part. When the dildo does go inside, it will hurt, but it won't kill you. Remember that what you're after is an orgasm that will keep you weak kneed long after the last of millions of brain spasms have ceased! When your sphincter relaxes, it seems to happen all at once! All of a sudden, it doesn't hurt, and your cock is saying, "Where have you been all my life?" Gently ease the shaft of the dildo inside, and wait a second or two before allowing it to ease out, a LITTLE! Don't let it escape or you'll have to do the pain thing again. It's all worth it in the end. Sorry, couldn't resist!

Once you and your body become accustomed to the Reward, the pain all butt disappears. I did it again, sorry. Soon, your cock will be asking for the dildo by name!

Enjoy, dude.


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