Blog Tagged ... by a lioness  

vrec_dawn 40M
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3/5/2006 1:19 pm

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Blog Tagged ... by a lioness


Normally I skip goofy things like this, but when I stumbled into a den and burst out laughing, I figured, what the heck, let the folks in blog land get to know Vrec Dawn.

1 ) Married, Single, Boyfriend/Girlfriend?
Seperated and filing for divorce. Just a matter of time before I'm single again. I can hardly wait!

2 ) Kids? Grandkids?
Nope. Pressure from the family to pass on a very rare family name, that's always been passed from the first son of a first son down the tree for tons of generations. (Well, okay, so a couple of times it had to be transfered to a new branch when the line broke.) But ... I don't know. Maybe I've just yet to meet a woman that I'd truly trust being a part of my kid's life. Maybe, having my father die when I was 7, I'm also afraid that I'll make a bad father because I had no role model and I make for a pretty lousy 'man'.

3 ) Favorite drink?
It used to be a white russian, but now I'm partial to Smirnoff Twisteds, especially rasberry.

4 ) Favorite color?
That's a tough one. It depends on what the color is being used for. Sometimes it's silver. Sometimes it's a washed out stone blue. Sometimes it's a deep dark dangerous forest green. And sometimes it's black.

5 ) Favorite food?
That's a tough one. I love sooooooo many foods. Good food is my biggest vice. But I'm going to have to say a thick hearty beef stew without tomato in the broth. Beef only broth. Lots of potato. Other veggies to availability and taste. And plenty of herbs.

6 ) What do you drive?
A beat up 98 Mercury Sable with over 200,000 miles on it.

7 ) Pets?
Fish: (not all in the same tank) 3 male bettas (Bushido, King, and Blizzard), 2 female bettas (Silk and Frostbite), 5 assorted beggers ... I mean goldfish (Orange is mine, I don't remember the names of the 4 that are my ex's), 1 plecostimus (named, stunningly, Pleco)
Hamsters: 2 female dwarf (Latte and Cream), 1 male dwarf (Coffee), 1 male teddybear (Teddy)

8 ) Chocolate or Vanilla?
Both, soft-serve, swirled together. Mmmmmmm...

9 ) What did you last watch on TV?
Stargate Atlantis

10 ) What are you listening to right now?
The sound of water falling into water, from the two surface filters in the begger's tank. It's like a fountain. I love it.

11 ) Favorite feature on the opposite sex?
Hmm ... there are so many to enjoy. I think eyes come first though. I love just staring into beautiful eyes and losing myself for a while. **LOL** I also have to say though that some tatoos, scars, and even stretch marks have been points of fascination for me. There's just something interesting about deviations from perfection. He he he.

12 ) Last thing you bought at Walmart?
Groceries. Oooh. Excitement. He he he.

13 ) Last time you got drunk
That depends on your definition of drunk, as I've never once been impared drunk. The last time I got slightly buzzed was probably about a month ago now, give or take? Dunno. I don't mark these things on my callendar.

14 ) Favorite thing to do in your spare time?
Favorite? Have mind-blowing sex. Duh.
Favorite thing that actually happens? Write a fantasy/sci-fi/fiction novel. Shortly after that comes reading a good such novel.

15 )What do you want to be when you grow up?
I don't think I actually want to grow up. Not fully. I don't want to ever get so serious that I can't still have fun. But I'd like to be an author one day. Sometimes I think it'd be fun to be a blacksmith too.

16 ) Favorite song?
Scarborough Fair by Simon and Garfunkel, shortly followed by The Sounds of Silence by Simon and Garfunkel, again shortly followed by pretty much the whole CD, The Sign, by Ace of Base.

17 ) Favorite smell?
spiced pumpkin pie

18 ) Worst smell?
ten foot high pile of rotting/fermenting corn

19 ) Are you getting tired of answering these yet?
No, but my back and legs are sore from sitting hunched in front of this dratted computer for so long.

20 ) Birthday?
31DEC76

21 ) Do you smoke?
Definately not. Used to socially smoke clove cigs, but that was many years ago.

22 ) Have you ever been in "love"?
I'd like to think so. Well, yeah, I have been. Deeply I think, at first anyway. Sometimes I really have to wonder just how much though. I mean for all I know, when I meet the right woman, I could find out that I had hardly loved at all in comparison. I just don't know.

23 ) Longest relationship?
7 years

24 ) Would you change any thing on your body?
Yeah, everything. Daily. I'd love to be a shapeshifter so that I could look exactly how I feel at any given moment. I'm far too complex to be satisfied with just the one look. He he he.

25 ) What is your hair color?
Brown ... with grey popping up more as the years pass

26 ) Your body type?
Short, solid, and with a shrinking (but once notable) tum tum

27 ) Best feature on yourself?
Now with 20% off!

Um, seriously, I think my thighs. They've always been pretty heavily muscular, even at my worst of times. But then maybe some people don't like that, so sometimes I worry it's my worst feature.

28 ) Who is your best friend?
As sad as it is, the ex. She's been my friend for over 8 years. She knows more about me than anyone else. Even if she hasn't always been someone that I could open up to. **shrug** As I said, it's sad. I've never been much of a friend maker.

29 ) Your most missed memory?
**ROFL** Maybe I'm being to literal, but if it's a memory I'm missing, how do I know what it is?
Okay, seriously, hmm ... My father. I barely remember him, but while he was alive, I worshipped him, so I'm told. As I said, I barely remember. But what fuzzy clips and vague pieces that I do have, I loved him very much, and I wish he were here today. And damn it, now I'm crying! Stupid damn question.

AND FINALLY THE VERY LAST ONE!!
30 ) What do you think of the person who tagged you?

I don't know. I haven't really met her. But I'm reminded of the second half of the phrase. Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought her back.

So faithful readers, of those who haven't done this yet, and give a damn, now you're IT!

singleagain53578 47F

3/5/2006 4:57 pm

1 ) Married, Single, Boyfriend/Girlfriend? I am seperated and working on my second divorce.

2 ) Kids? Grandkids? I have 2 kids... Zachary 11 and Paige 8 from my first marriage.

3 ) Favorite drink? Smirnoff Twisted-Grape, Sex on the beach, screaming orgasms, blow jobs-- ohhhh wait. Drinks you meant!!!

4 ) Favorite color? Black mostly- sky blue. I don't really have one. Clothes- I mostly wear black.

5 ) Favorite food? Italian, Mexican and Chinese

6 ) What do you drive? 93 Plymouth Voyageur Mini van- white with only 65,000 original miles on it.

7 ) Pets? Fish, 2 dogs and some cats.

8 ) Chocolate or Vanilla? vanilla

9 ) What did you last watch on TV? SpongeBob SquarePants

10 ) What are you listening to right now? The Oscars on tv

11 ) Favorite feature on the opposite sex? Their facial features. Sexy trimmed goatee and mustache-cut short. Nice tight ass.

12 ) Last thing you bought at Walmart? Yogurt, crackers, crabmeat, cookies, diet iced tea

13 ) Last time you got drunk. Last night. No I wasn't really drunk but I was getting a good buzz going.

14 ) Favorite thing to do in your spare time? spare time, what's that? Well when I get some I like to read, play on the internet, swim, camp, fish, hike, sit by the campfire.

15 )What do you want to be when you grow up? I would love to be content in whatever it is that makes me happy and I would love to be in love with that someone I am meant to spent the rest of my life with.

16 ) Favorite song? Check on it by beyonce

17 ) Favorite smell? gasoline, smelly markers, paint thinner

18 ) Worst smell? Zachary's feet

19 ) Are you getting tired of answering these yet? yes

20 ) Birthday? Jan. 22, 1970


21 ) Do you smoke? Yes unfortanately, I am on a small relapse. I will quit again next week.

22 ) Have you ever been in "love"? yes with my first husband until her hurt me terribly and I can never forgive him.

23 ) Longest relationship? 12 yrs

24 ) Would you change any thing on your body? Everything, especially my freckles on my face.

25 ) What is your hair color? Dark Brown with one thick gray stubborn hair that I cut out every once in a while.

26 ) Your body type? next question!!!!!

27 ) Best feature on yourself? Eyes

28 ) Who is your best friend? Tracy- we have been friends ever since I was born and lived next door to her. She's my girl!!!!

29 ) Your most missed memory? Losing my virginity.

AND FINALLY THE VERY LAST ONE!!
30 ) What do you think of the person who tagged you? He's a great guy and a true friend.

~SINgle~


vrec_dawn 40M

3/6/2006 3:46 pm

"15 )What do you want to be when you grow up? I would love to be content in whatever it is that makes me happy and I would love to be in love with that someone I am meant to spent the rest of my life with. "
Ooooh. Damn. That's good one! I wish I'd thought of that. Mind if I steal that for my fairytale happily ever after dream?

"17 ) Favorite smell? gasoline, smelly markers, paint thinner"
Someone likes getting high. You know, I almost said gasoline myself, but that's more of a mood thing.

"21 ) Do you smoke? Yes unfortanately, I am on a small relapse. I will quit again next week. "
Quitting = good
Cancer = bad

"24 ) Would you change any thing on your body? Everything, especially my freckles on my face. "
But ... but ... but ... freckles are sexy. You don't really want to lose something so special and unique, do you?

"25 ) What is your hair color? Dark Brown with one thick gray stubborn hair that I cut out every once in a while. "
Mwa ha ha ha. I love my grey hairs... to chew on. They are thicker, and that makes them so much fun to pull out and nibble bit by bit. He he he.

"29 ) Your most missed memory? Losing my virginity. "
Now there is a memory I don't miss. Either time. (Depending on how you look at it.) Being almost was not fun. But, strangely, less painful than my first actual time. I fell off the bed and whacked my head hard on the closet door on my way down. I thought I was going to have a concussion. And then in the end I didn't even 'make it'. She did at least. So I guess it wasn't a total loss.

"30 ) What do you think of the person who tagged you? He's a great guy and a true friend. "
Awwwww. You are too. Well ... a true friend anyway. Not the guy part.


singleagain53578 47F

3/8/2006 5:06 pm

Well you missed my point. My most missed memory- now remember, I was molested at age 4 and then twice before I actually had consenting sex with my boyfriend and soon to be husband.

I really hate it when people talk about their "first time" and then they ask me about mine, and all I say is I can't remember. They joke and laugh about it. Like I was drunk or that I am lying to them. One of these days I am going to say- "I do not remember because I was molested at age 4" OR "well which time would you like to know about? The time I was molested at age 4 and the 2 times I was at a party?"

~SINgle~


singleagain53578 47F

3/8/2006 5:20 pm

Oh and FRECKLES are soooo NOT sexy!!!! LOL

~SINgle~


vrec_dawn 40M

3/9/2006 4:05 pm

    Quoting singleagain53578:
    Well you missed my point. My most missed memory- now remember, I was molested at age 4 and then twice before I actually had consenting sex with my boyfriend and soon to be husband.

    I really hate it when people talk about their "first time" and then they ask me about mine, and all I say is I can't remember. They joke and laugh about it. Like I was drunk or that I am lying to them. One of these days I am going to say- "I do not remember because I was molested at age 4" OR "well which time would you like to know about? The time I was molested at age 4 and the 2 times I was at a party?"

    ~SINgle~
Yeah, I know what you mean. But having been there myself, I personally don't count being as my "firt time". I mean if it wasn't consentual, it shouldn't count in my opinion. You know?


vrec_dawn 40M

3/9/2006 4:10 pm

Are too! Are too! I love things that add character.


singleagain53578 47F

3/9/2006 6:21 pm

No I dont really count that as my first time but that was where I had lost my virginity which is what my friends and co-workers refer to when they ask me about my first time.

~SINgle~


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