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THIS WILL HURT LIKE HELL THE Inquisition

I have met a lot of members, but few bloggers. I am a sporadic blogger, but a voracious reader. Let me guide you through the pitfalls of blogland.

People I've met on this site whom I respect and admire. eroticneed JLH7271960 britishbeef61 Theonethatownsu. I am going on a road trip with EN in Jan 2011 to meet several bloggers and members I am interested in. Till we meet, Happy Holidays.
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Whisper Sweet Nothings into my Ear, and I will guide you through it all Dec 13, 2010 8:39 am
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Private Message Post just for me. I will tell no one what you post so come on, what do you want to know?
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Here is your answer Bitches Feb 9, 2011 2:50 pm
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I saw EN telling someone off for a change and I nearly had an orgasm because it was about fucking time the truth comes out! Yeah whatever about the bullshit blog you put up to reply to EN and TDH. Who gives a fuck?

Why would I want to read a blog from a blogger who stalk my friends and I all over blog land? Fuck! You have a mental problem, and you need help. No one on "this side" want to hear your bullshit because we have never met you. We do not know you. We do not want to know you and get over yourself. I'm the Queen Bitch sweetie. Don't not shit with me and I will not start shit with you!

I have never told EN or someone on the blogs who to be friends with. Wait! I take that back. I thought FHR was one of the losers and I did try to control EN by withholding our friendship and sex. Lol! You want to know the result of that little act? She blew me off because she is 100% genuine and real. She is true to her character, and she is a hundred times better than any of you. She will tell her friends off if they ever pull that card with her!

I guess all of you can't say the same. I see the fat bitch writing a blog about how EN wasn't wanted or invited to the Vegas meet and greet. This is news to me! I read the email where she was invited! I guess you forgot to remind yourself that you can't control the members who have some balls to stand up to your shit.

I am straightforward and I take shit from no one. The one thing I'm proud of is how I never attack anyone without cause. This blog. This blog isn't an attack on you sweetie. If and when I choose to call your bullshit. You should know it will be much worse than this.

I have no desire to participate or meet a bunch of losers and loudmouths who will let some fat bitch control how they think and act! Fuck off and leave my friend alone!

EN if you choose to meet or participate with any of them, I will not be going. I don't care how you view this. This is my vacation too, and I will not spend it looking at fat bitches, molester and cowardly men!
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Life Imitate Art. I know Who I would Pick in Blog Land to Play Ares/Mars God of War! Feb 6, 2011 5:10 pm
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I love how Life imitate Art.

I'm tire of the lies. I'm tired of the constant attacks by the same people. I was forwarded a blog which the blatant lies and manipulation was shocking even to me who have seen it all with these people. This is what I have to say.

My favorite quotes because I love how life often immitates Art:

Wikipedia: Ares is the son of Zeus and Hera. He was disliked by both parents. He is the god of war. He is considered murderous and bloodstained but, also a coward. When caught in an act of adultery with Aphrodite her husband Hephaestus is able publically ridicule him. His bird is the vulture. His animal is the dog.

Homer's Ares was bloody and merciless and while god of war, was a coward who cried in pain and when wounded, runs away.

From an episode of Xena, Fear of the Ever Expanding Abyss, my favorite one. Lol.

Ares narrowed his gaze. "You're an illusion an illusion which isn't real!" The counter part laughed mockingly again. "Despite your front you're really just a snivelling coward underneath aren't you? When anything gets hard you run away, you can't even do your own dirty work." He pulled the sword of war free. "You've never even led a battle yet you claim to be the god of war."

He threw the sword down hard. "Looking at you disgusts me because I was you and I never saw the error of my ways. It's funny you know I spent my life wanting Zeus's throne and when I finally sat on it when all of Olympus was empty I realized that it was hollow victory." He pulled up his hand. "Now here's the real interesting part which you're not going to like."

His counterpart sneered in disgust. "And you wish you could open me up and show everyone the mean inside of me right?" He sniggered slightly. "Or is that more the mean in side of you?" His gaze slowly narrowed. "You're looking at you, you pathetic fool! What's wrong god of war, don't you like seeing how cruel you are to other people?"
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The Dirty Dozen Applying for Minion Positions. Where is Sex when I need it! Feb 6, 2011 2:33 pm
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Damn! I had the weirdest dream last night.

My dream started out with a phone call from my boss telling me some foreigners were using the bar as an Interview Place for Recruiting Minions. I was the Cooler to this Bar. I called one of my bouncer over and told him to make sure and check everyone's IP addresses as they come into the Bar. We don't want any trouble with the Fake Hunters now do we?

My bouncer said no problem, and I warned my bartender how he was not to push any buttons while mixing his deadly brew! The foreigners wanted each applicant to drink a truth serum because they wanted to make sure they were hiring the right people for the job. tdh_loves_en assured me, he would make sure the serum will be ready.

FHR signaled me that our guests have arrived. I introduced myself and had a hard time making out these people's words.

"I sorry." The foreign lady said. "I not so good with Engrish." She pointed over to an older man and said "This is my Engrish professor. He helps." I smiled and said welcome. I introduced myself to him too, and oh shit! I found out he is Deaf and Blind. What the fuck? (I really want to wake up from this dream now. I keep pinching myself, but I can't wake up. I feel like I'm on a speeding train hitting everything and everyone in site, the train was Unstoppable!)

FHR signaled me again and I quickly excused myself, leaving the foreigners to get ready for their interviews. FHR said, "Boss, do we want to let the Dirty Dozen into the Bar? They look rough, and they smell!" I checked them over and nodded slightly to him. Lies have a stench, empathic people recognize right away. My employees are smart!

"Hello, my name is V. Welcome to RoadHouse. Enjoy yourself, but you start any trouble and I will end it! Do we understand each other?" I look each one of them in the eye. The leader of the bunch mumbled something unintelligible, and I wish I can speak Spainish. I need to remind myself to ask TDH to keep an eye on this one just to make sure he doesn't get past me by using Spainish as a way to harass anyone at the bar! Satisfy they got the message, I walked them over to the where our foreign guests were set up.

"I'm here for the Minion 1 position."

The foreign lady look over her shoulder and behind her at him. "What you say? My engrish not so good. Cum closer and speak into Hole!" The guy came closer and tried talking to the Engrish, I mean English professor. She yelled at him. "Speak into Hole pease! Engrish professor Deaf."

"Oh then he can critique writings because I have some I can show you and him." He started to pull something out of his bag. The foreigner said "No, he blind too. STFU and drink before tell me what your specialty and why I hire you as Minion 1!" (This woman's broken engrish, I mean english, was hard to handle.)

After drinking truth serum served by TDH, Minion Wannabe 1 said. "I can photoshop anything and anyone. Who do you want me to frame, and I'll do it." Foreign lady said, "Good. Next!"

Minion Wannabe 2 drinks then said, "I can con everyone into believing anything. The Pity Card you played recently, I can make it even better. People fall for claims of a woman suffering from medical conditions all of the time. We can make some money doing this." Foreign lady said, "Good. Next!"

Minion Wannabe 3 drinks then said, "I'm a Constitutional Law attorney, but I have to be honest. I didn't finish law school. I never passed the Bar, and I'm a stalker. Ask my last girlfriend who is a greek girl!" Foreign lady said, "Good. Next!"

Minion Wannabe 4 drinks then said, "I don't take No for an answer from women." Foreign lady look over her shoulder again, and yelled, "Speak into the fucking Hole louder!" MW4 yelled back thru clenched teeth, "Women do not fucking tell me NO! I can't handle Rejection!" Foreign Lady said, "Good. Next!"

Minion Wannabe 5 drinks then said, "I am a bitch. I will attack anyone you point me at. I don't care if what I'm told is true or not, but I will bite down on it like a Canadian Bulldog and fucking lie, attack and manipulate to defend you." Foreign lady said, "Very Good. Next!"

Minion Wannabe 6 drinks then said, "I have connections! I can protect all of you. I've been around longer than Moses, and I know all of tricks on getting people off. I'm better than an attorney. I'm old and I'm used up, but I can make sure the woman I hate is slandered and maligned until I'm ready to leave this bar or she is!" Foreign lady almost lost her balance and fell forward on her face when she raised both hands to clap gleefully! "Very good. Next."

Minion Wannabe 7 and 8 came in together. They both drink then said in unison. "We are best friends. Our specialties are proclaiming inncocence while sending private emails showing our true colors. There is a sample floating around right now dealing with Vegas. Do you want to see?" Foreign lady smiled and said, "Good. Next."

And so it continues in my dreams one after another.

MW9, her specialty are lies. MW10, her specialty are 10 years old pictures and pussies. MW11, whispered into the hole because she didn't want us to hear. MW12, and he is my favorite because he likes to post fake pictures and play with loaded dice. How can I resist. I'm heading for Vegas after all. I desperately need a vacation after sitting thru this shit.

When they all left, TDH, FHR and I fumigated the place. We didn't want the owner of the bar to walk in and smell the stench. No one should have to smell The Stench!

Thank God I woke up in time to head to work. I think Freud would have a field day with my Dream. What do you think?

Disclaimer: If you recognize yourself in any parts of my Dream, please seek Help!
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I will Piss Off a Few People, Like this is News to You? Lol. Feb 4, 2011 3:21 pm
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If you're a beautiful and single woman on this site, stay away from blogging. Blogging is primarily dominated by "Heavy to Large" frames people who will attack to defend their territory aka Blog land.

If you're a beautiful and single woman who have a following of men and women commenting on your blog, Eeeck! You're in trouble. I have a hotline, you can call for assistance.

I have read and heard several men asked the question why are there so many bots or fake profiles on this site? These same men will look around and see old or fat men and women attacking other attractive members, if they do nothing about this, then I would say STFU and stop complaining. This site is what you make of it. The attractive people have been ran off by so many of these bitches and assholes, and I'm tire of seeing it. I am here to meet and have fun. I am not here to cam with some bitch from across the ocean so she can say I exist. Why would she care whether I exist or not? Why should she care about what I think of her? She didn't care enough to answer my email, but when I posed a question. She called it a blog war! Lol. What a joke!

This woman came on my blog and was caught using a fake profile to back up her stories. Now, the fake hunters are on her side because she is attacking EN.

Area 51 guy was read because he attacked EN.

Molester was read and hijacked because he attacked EN.

Conwoman was hijacked because she started the attacks on EN.

A prostitute was recruited because she attacked EN.

Steps for Success:

How to get along with the "Other Side", and maybe even get on their Recruiting List.

1. Attack EN.

2. Cry about being blocked and banned from EN's blog or her friends' blog. Make sure the tears are big crocodile ones, and cry loudly, very loud.

3. Tell blog land how you're not about drama, but do not forget to be be dramatic in your attacks of women or men who do not like you. There are millions of members, but "do not forget to Fixate on the ones who think you're shit!"

4. When all else fails, Proclaim how you're in the middle of a Blog War! Hint: This is my favorite one. I never think people are stupid until they use this tactic.

Living in another country should never stop one from using these successful tactics because "they're all about the Attention". I love how I am the lover of one of the most powerful woman in blog land. She has to be this powerful because look at all of the combined blogs of those who will attack her. Their are so many insecure and jealous assholes whining about being blocked by her that makes me laugh at their games. EN doesn't need the extra help in getting attention, but it sure is fun to watch how these "little" (little was used in a sarcastic sense) men and women play their games.
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OMG! I almost pee in my pants when I read this blog. Thanks FHR for making my Day! Feb 4, 2011 12:01 pm
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I stole this blog from . I laughed out loud when I read it because FHR, you're a little slow. I know it makes no sense to me, and it is very telling who jumps on the band wagon. If a member wants to be read, then post something stupid about EN. They get instant notoriety and offer of friendships from the losers.

FHR' posted:

I finally found out who the hell the area 51 guy is, and read his blog, and all the comments. I remain in a constant state of shock, just reading through the comments blows my mind. What a bunch of fucking liars!!!
It amazes me the level of bullshit that these assholes will spread. I was reading the comments, and constantly getting bombarded by my mind that kept reminding me with each comment, "but I remember when you said....."
I can't get over the fact that they will say one thing on one post, then turn around and say something entirely different on another post. I realize there are a lot of members here that do not know how to spot the fakes, but let's put it this way sometimes you can see them by the way they write. For instance there is only a handful of members here that would use the term "blog fodder" it is not a common phrase. Yet I saw where a member I didn't know used it in this guys post, this member knew a hell of a lot about what was going on, and even claimed to have left blogging because of this BS, yet she still knew what was happening during the time of her supposed self imposed exile now I happen to know someone else that uses that phrase, but she claims to be only protecting her group, and staying in her corner. Oh really? It's easy to claim that when you use a fake profile to do your "dirty work"
What a bunch of two faced bastards, I at least have a small amount of respect for those who do it with their main profile, at least they are willing to take the heat for what they say. Rather their full of shit or not is irrelevant. At least they'll step up to the line, and face the consequences.
I just can't believe some of the shit these assholes will say, but what does it matter? By their words, I'm not really real I'm just a fake, or I'm paid to blog here How fucking absurd, I mean seriously if you knew what my financial situation was really like you would see how completely fucking retarded this idea is.
Why can't these people be one or the other, I mean seriously fucking lie all the way, or try the damn truth. God I hate luke warm it fucking sucks, because you can never tell which side your talking to, are you talking to the real person, or are you being fed more of their fucking lies. Have they gotten to the point that they no longer even know the difference themselves? I mean fucking seriously here, I know I am not the cream of the crop, hell in some regards I am about as fucked up as a man can get, but FUCK!!! at least I am honest about it, I'm sorry for fuckin rantin, but god I hate fake fucks!!! god damn it why can't you either be honest, or shut the fuck up? There are fuckin millions of members here, are you seriously going to tell me that you can not find anything else to do, but to lie about a woman who has clearly stated she wishes nothing to do with you?
You know, I am blocked from several bloggers myself, you know how I deal with it? Here's how I deal with it, when I recently went on a streak through blogville, I randomly posted on any blog I could find quickly, when I found ones I was blocked from, I moved on, end of story, they were nothing more than speed bumps on my run.
Fucking deal with it, grow the fuck up and move the fuck on. Why is that so damn difficult for you? You don't see me ranting except for this one time about those that have me blocked, even though I have no one blocked do ya? That's because I recognize this simple fact of life, if someone blocks me I take it as a pretty damned good clue that they do not wish to interact with me
So I respect their wishes, and I move on, it really is that simple, I'm not even gonna name anyone that has me blocked because I truly could give a shit less, why can't you do the same?
I wont even address the boy that went posting through blogville last night, I call him a boy because no man, not even a wife beaten drunk ass bum of a man would have sunk to do what he did, I will not acknowledge him as being a man, because he obviously is not one. I will say that I pray I truly pray I get the opportunity to meet this boy someday, You have no idea how much I would love to meet this boy. Given just a few moments I believe I could show him the errors of his ways.
For now though, I can't help but shake my head in disbelief as I laugh my ass off. Talk about an inability to face reality

Dear FHR, I think you said it all, but we know the haters and their followers will ignore how their actions affect blog land. We are at fault because we block the losers and move on with our lives.
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The Biggest W H O "L" E in Asia! Feb 2, 2011 9:44 pm
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I've been at work so I didn't get to read the latest attack by the Crack and Hole.

Last night, I asked Crack and Hole why did she visits EN's blog every five minues when she would never post a comment. Crack and Hole had never joined in any of the discussions, but this woman have posted, begged and literally blackmail members on this site wih the promise of her friendship if they would post ten comments on her blogs.

A woman so concern about making friends and reading people's comments would want to join in on discussions with members wouldn't you think? No, I guess she wouldn't contribute to someone's else discussion when she view the other member as a threat to her popularity. The interesting situation here was how EN have posted on this woman's blog. EN have welcomed her and complimented Crack and Hole on her Top Blogger status. We all saw how important it was to her. Sweetie, I never thought you were stealing someone's ideas because frankly not everyone can post countless blogs on who will fuck them in public. How many dicks can they fit into each hole or who cares if Asian chicks kisses each other? I wish she would talk about interacial relationship!

This is a open forum and I posed a question to Crack and Hole. I didn't think she was going to get all whiny about it.

Crack and Hole, I can see your need for attention, and I had thought your attempts to garner attention was cute in a sick way. My opinion shouldn't matter to you so much, but it is ok. I can see why my calling you out would make you worry. The beauty of people like you are the transparencies of it all. Sooner or later we all see the truth. This is like how you were caught using a fake profile on my blog answering . You claim the fake profile was a man at your place and when you left the room, this guy used your computer to attack FHR. You claim how it was the same guy which used your profile to tell EN to fuck off and never visit your blog again. What was hilarious was how the incidence with EN happened 3 weeks prior to my posting the blog about your ten comments requests.

I do not feel threaten by someone like you, and since I have no interest in visiting Bangkok to fuck you. I have no interest in blogging with you. I do not like you. I do not find you attractive. You are skinny. I'll give you that much, but looking at your many holes on display. I feel nothing, but revulsion for how well used you are. I never thought I would see the day when I could be disgusted with sex, but you have made me understand the difference between fucking, being used by some stranger versus making love to someone I admire and respect. Thanks for the offer of camming with you, but no thanks.

I'm real enough. You can come to Vegas and meet me if you choose. I was laughing my ass off when I read how you think that I give a shit about what something like you said. Seriously? You're in Thailand and you want to prove to yourself that I'm real because I called you out for being a fake? You use fake profiles to attack people and to call yourself beautiful. This is a mental health issue I'm sure with the money you have bragged about, you can get the necessary help for. You are like many on here. You pretend to be one way, but in reality and in personal emails, you're a fake.

Another thing, you claim to read EN's blogs. You were making a joke? If you read EN's blog, then you would know her feelings about the term blog war. I will remind you of her thoughts on this from a previous blog posting of mine where EN said the following:

I grew up all over Asia. I spend the majority of my time in Vietnam because MY MOTHER is Vietnamese. I saw FIRST hand the DEVASTATION of WAR. I SAW first HAND the LEGACY of AGENT ORANGE…what THIS CHEMICAL WEAPON did to the VEGETATIONS and the PEOPLE of my MOTHER’S COUNTRY.

Therefore, WHEN I see the IGNORANT and IRRESPONSIBLE USE of the TERM WAR as a DESIGNATION for something as INSIGNIFICANT as CONFLICT between two online personas on the BLOGS…I have to say I LOSE all RESPECT for the INDIVIDUAL using this TERM because it clearly indicates THEY are NOT only STUPID but an ASININE FOOL! These people CLEARLY have NEVER seen the devastation of WAR, and are CLEARLY …so DESPERATE in seeking ATTENTION that they will employ ANY MEANS to get it! This need for ATTENTION makes me LAUGH and I thank the GOOD LORD above how I do NOT need to employ these tactics in order to be read or appreciated on the blogs!


I will say with all honesty that I concur with what EN said about the term War in reference to the blogs.

Crack and Hole please do yourself a favor and do not start a fight with someone who is leap and bound smarter than you are. Why waste your time starting shit with someone across the sea when all they did was ask a question about your hypocrisy?

Anyway, according to this Crack and Hole, I'm not real unless I cam with her. I guess I need to fuck three or four guys then post it on a video to be real. Can you say, I'm not a fucking whore? Thanks.
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Messy Bloggers and how They use this Site for Fun Feb 1, 2011 6:11 pm
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Messy Bloggers and their ideas of friendship.

I feel this is a way to get the message out to the rest of the world. Thanks EN for letting me vent here. I went over to the area 51 jerk’s blog. I read the molester's comments about how TDH, TOTOU, FHR, myself, Mark, Jack, Vincent, and really everyone who had met EN are all actors she had hired as bloggers. We have all been paid by EN to be on this site. We have all been paid by EN to pretend to have relationships with her. We have all been paid to go to meet and greets.

If this is the case, then EN you are a cheap bitch! Where the hell is my Gold Membership? How am I or the rest of the gang suppose to market you if we don’t have a gold ball? You know how I love playing with balls! I want a gold ball EN.

I swear the more the molester blogs. The more his lack of intelligence is glaringly obvious even to a paid persona like me. Yes, I’m being sarcastic.

Several months ago on the blogger from Boston blog. The molester stated how EN portrayed herself as a multi-millionaire. He said she lied about that and her profession. He said she lied about her children. He said she lied about her business. He said she lied about being single. He said all of her friends were fake profiles that EN created. He and every bitch who is jealous of EN ranted about her pictures too.

St. Louis Meet and Greet. tdh_loves_en, theonethatownsu, , dawgmark33 and eroticneed were all in the same room together. What the fuck? Could the molester be, [insert shock gasp here for dramatic effect] [imagine dramatic music announcing a major fact] WRONG? [visualize my falling back against the couch in dismay and pain]

Then for more special effects, imagine my dog letting out a smelly fart because the bullshit coming from the molester is too ridiculous to hold in!

I never heard EN tell anyone she is a multi-millionaire. I never heard EN tell anyone what she does for a living. I have heard her blog about being a workaholic. I have heard her blog about loving her job. I’ve met her children. I’ve met her family. I’ve been to her work. I have visited her home. I know what kind of cars she drives. I know the lifestyle she lives. Dear Molester, you’re an idiot!

Several months ago, the molester said EN was lied about her multi-million dollars status and she didn’t have a job. A couple of days ago, EN now hires the people some of you met at the St. Louis Meet and Greet to portray bloggers on this site. Where is the money coming from? Once again EN, if you’re paying them then I want a fucking gold ball damn it!

I want to say how in the 6 years I’ve been on this site, I’ve never seen such attacks and a invasion of privacy like I’ve seen instigated and orchestrated by the rejects of the site. We are who we associate with, and I can say I feel sorry for those who will embrace lies in order to justify their pathetic existence. Molester if your life is so great like you have said over and over again. Your life is such that we can only dream of, then why do you spend all of your time chasing after any creeps attacking EN to spread your poison? Why do you literally beg for any crumbs of information about EN to justify your existence? If your life is so great, why are you on this site as a standard member? A standard member whose main goal is to attack EN?

You’re like a train wreck creating havoc through blog land. You will hurt more and more people before you’re done, but this just goes to show the type of person you are.
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The Back Up Plan Feb 1, 2011 7:24 am
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Ever had someone treat you as their Back Up Plan? How did this makes you feel?
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A Reply to Those who shall not be named about Vegas Jan 21, 2011 10:34 am
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I stole parts of this blog from eroticneed I JUST REFUSE TO LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN!!!.

I posted a blog stating I will be in Vegas February 17th thru 20th. The resulting backlash from one simple comment can still be felt through blogland. My best friend was accused of horrible things with the host of this event by a very manipulative woman, and wouldn't you know it but the same old man showed up to join in on the attacks. I don't want to call him by anything, but his real persona on here. He is an old man who can't blog about anything other than hatred and attacks against people he had never met. He is accepted by some people on here because he is their attack dog. Point his muzzle in the direction they want him to chase, and he is all over it. He will tell you how he speaks the truth, but how can you speak the truth about someone you don't know? Never met? Funny isn't it?

To that man, you fucking owe several people apologies asshole! I know we'll never see it from you because you are too damn arrogant and vicious to admit you've done someone wrong. You attacked me and my friends without having an ounce of proof other than what your friends said. All of your friends have never met EN other than the molester. He got what? Five minutes tops? You know nothing, and have you never heard of the warning "too little knowledge is a dangerous thing?" In this case, you are the example and not the exception to the rule.


EN's blog.

FOR ME, the POINT of this BLOG was to share HOW sad I am that GOOD PEOPLE...AWESOME PEOPLE...were drawn into a situation that should have just remained between several bloggers who just didn't like each other! THE FREAKEN HILARIOUS THING ABOUT THIS...WAS THAT ONE BLOGGER I MET FOR ALL OF 5 MINUTES AND FOUND HIM TO BE A LOSER...SORRY...MY OPINION! THE REST WERE PEOPLE I DON'T LIKE...WILL NEVER LIKE...AND HAVE NEVER MET THEM! To THOSE people...YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELVES BECAUSE YOU HAVE STOLEN SEVERAL FRIENDSHIPS FROM BLOGGERS!

I agree. Good people are losing out on great friendship because of this ongoing drama by these assholes. At some point, this needs to stop. I am reactive, but this shit is old. I don't know about the rest of blogland, but I am so fucking tire of their shit!


BECAUSE YOU have run around blogville...inciting attacks AGAINST ME and those I choose to call FRIENDS...YOU have caused DAMAGE to those who NEVER wanted ANYTHING EXCEPT TO MEET PEOPLE THEY RESONATED WITH ON THIS SITE! PEOPLE WHO SHARED SIMILAR INTERESTS AND DESIRES AS THEY DO!

This is true. I have ignored and walked away from many people I would see on these idiots blogs. I never want to get infected by their hatred. I reacted to slander and lies, but we all know this was their purpose for posting most of their drivels. They post to get a reaction out of EN and her friends. Then when they get bitch slap by me and the rest of EN's friends. They go crying to other bloggers about how mean big bad V was to them. What a bunch of whiners and losers!

Blogville, YESTERDAY was an incredibly busy day. BUT thank GOD the lady I spoke with last night was kind enough to take my call well AFTER the wee hours as some would call it. I used to take the attitude that IF SOMEONE I HAD ENJOYED BLOGGING WITH WILL BELIEVED THE BULLSHIT THAT 'THOSE WHO SHALL NOT BE NAMED' BUT ARE VINDICTIVE AND VOCAL ABOUT THEIR HATRED OF ME...then they deserved whatever they GET!

NO...I don't prescribed to this anymore. NO ONE on this site HAS the RIGHT to INTERFERE with another PERSON'S FRIENDSHIP. NO ONE.

About fucking damn time!

I WILL NO LONGER IGNORE THESE THIEVES WHO WILL USE LIES TO STEAL AWAY ANY FRIENDS OR POTENTIAL FRIENDS THAT I MAY HAVE...yes, bloggers YOU are important to me.

IF YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU HATE ME, I hope YOU KNOW WHY. I hope THAT you are MAN enough or WOMAN enough to say...I HATE EN because I MET HER and KNOW she is some EVIL BITCH HELL BENT TO DOMINATE BLOGVILLE! Sorry...couldn't help it...it sounded too ridiculous to NOT SAY IT...I'm kind of a dork this way.

I never understood how they can hate you when they didn't even know you. Lol. I understand how those three old men were running around talking shit about you, but really blog land? Really? It wasn't logical to ask how it is that people whom have met EN will tell you different except for old men she didn't give the time of day to. Oh I remember now. Everyone who supported EN or are her friends were disparagingly called another persona of her. I guess when all of these personas showed up for the St. Louis Meet and Greet, what was that? Wishful hallucinations?

All kidding aside...IF you HATE ME or IF YOU HATE someone...then SHOULDN'T YOU THINK YOU SHOULD KNOW WHY? No...NOT what SOMEONE ELSE told YOU WHY, but YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE with ME.

I hope too that those whose friendships were destroyed by those who shall not be named. They can find it in their hearts to try again.

WANT A FRIEND, THEN BE A FRIEND.

RECOGNIZE THAT YOUR ENEMY IS NOT YOUR FRIEND'S ENEMY.

WHEN YOU APPLIED THE TERM ENEMY TO SOMEONE, KNOW WHO IT IS THAT YOU CHOOSE TO HATE.

NEVER TRY TO FORCE SOMEONE TO TAKE YOUR SIDE ESPECIALLY IF THEY KNOW THE PERSON YOU HATE...THEY HAVE BEEN TO THAT PERSON'S HOME... WORK PLACE... MET REAL PEOPLE WHILE YOU ARE STILL RANTING ABOUT SOME STUPID DRAMA ON THE BLOGS. REMEMBER AND GIVE RESPECT TO THE FACT THAT THESE PEOPLE YOU WOULD ATTACK ARE REAL WITH REAL FEELINGS AND REAL FRIENDS TOO!

ABOVE ALL...BLOGVILLE IS A BIG PLACE. THERE ARE TONS OF PEOPLE FOR YOU TO INTERACT WITH...WITHOUT TRYING TO DESTROY THE FRIENDSHIPS OF SOMEONE ELSE.

IF EVEN AFTER ALL IS SAID AND DONE...YOU STILL FEEL THAT YOU MUST SPREAD HATRED AND DISCORD IN ORDER TO FEEL IMPORTANT IN BLOGVILLE, THEN THIS SAYS SOMETHING ABOUT YOU! JUST YOU! NO MORE LIES OR EXCUSES WILL BE TOLERATED...THIS TIME...IT IS ALL ABOUT YOU SWEETHEART! ENJOY!

Please take this moment and recognize the friendship that you have in blogville...please never let someone steal that away from you. So my friends...ever had one of those days when your're tired of the bullshit and YOU refuse to LOSE ONE MORE BRIGHT LIGHT in YOUR LIFE?

Damn but I love this woman! This is the reason why EN is special. The blue dress or the red one is an added bonus, but her heart and mind is why so many love her. I love you sweetie.

THIS BLOG HAVE BEEN APPROVED BY Adult FriendFinder CUSTOMER SERVICE REP WHOSE NAME I WROTE DOWN AND WHAT TIME SHE APPROVED THIS BLOG SO GOOD LUCK FINDING SOMETHING TO BITCH ABOUT.
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Forget the Sex. Forget the Videos. Forget the Erotica. Forget the Profiles. Take a stab at Reality. Jan 14, 2011 6:57 pm
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I read a blog by The song of the Siren, our deepest desires exploited. He asked the question of how do we feel when we discover the lies behind the "truths" we were told?

I read another blog analyzing "personas" as presented on this site. I smiled as I read it, and the usual crowd jumped in on this band wagon.

I looked at a woman who proclaimed to all and sundry how honest she was, and how wonderful of a friend she was to everyone. How there were no hidden agendas to her actions, and she had recently been depressed because some on this site saw her as the "manipulator" I know she is.

I want all of my readers to forget how this is a sex site. I want all of my readers to forget the videos, jello or mousse. I want all of my readers to forget the erotica, or how a profile was worded. I want all of my readers to take a step away from the "drama" created by people who would "tell" us who to blog with, who to like, who to talk to, and who to know. I want all of my readers to take a step away from the people who can't enjoy their place in blog land without making fun or hurt someone else. I want all of my readers to take a step away from the toxic ones, and move one step to the right of Reality, then let us see what we have.

I will attend the Las Vegas Meet and Greet. I'm looking forward to putting faces to profiles, and getting to know several people. I have read blogs about Meet and Greets. Haven't we all?

When I read these blogs, I'm told there are many wonderful and beautiful people having a great time. A few days later, we will hear about some stupid drama because one person was pissed off because a man or a woman they wanted spent time with someone else. Childish behaviors, but what did we expect? Emotions can be a bitch to deal with especially if the emotions are Envy and Jealousy!

I would like to ask what do we do when we meet someone at a Meet and Greet and we discover they do not look like their profile pictures? I want to know will this skewed our perceptions of them? They had in essence lied; therefore, do we "politely" ignore this lie, or do we call them out on it? Remember we are meeting bloggers whom have been blogging with us, and not to be cliche, they may have a great personality!

To quote a woman on here who said, "...a lie to make someone look better or to portray them better than who they are is still a lie..." or something to this effect. I do not want to go back to her blog again. She was too transparent for words. I know some of the women she blogs with didn't look like their profiles or act as they portrayed themselves in their blogs.

I would like to ask what do we do when we meet someone at a Meet and Greet, and find them to be exactly who they are on the blogs? What do we do, and how do we heal the damage we caused by "attacking them", and joining in on the "hate fest" that several bloggers they had never met put forth? How do we fix the image we created of ourselves by our own actions. Actions we would be appalled if they had been directed at ourselves or our friends. How do we address this?

I mean do we walk up to this person, and say "Hi. Wow. You look like your photos, and you seem so nice. I am one of the asshole who joined in on the attacks against you. I am also the asshole who wrote blogs calling you every disgusting names I could think of because I listened to the rumors and gossips about you by jealous men and women. I did it because they were doing it, and I was trying to fit in."

I wonder what that person who was wronged is suppose to say in response to this.

I also wonder what the man or the woman who had been attacking a member they do not know feel when they see how their entire "reality" of this member was in fact a lie. Of course, it was a lie they bought into, but a lie nonetheless. I wonder what their feelings are as they stand there and realize they were stupid fools. They can't blame the manipulator. They can't blame the photoshop king. They can't blame the molester. They can only blame themselves because they "jumped" into that "Reality".

To quote my best friend and favorite blogger. "Perception is Reality."

I hope none of my friends will have to feel the pain of being lied to, or the pain of being used.

What do you all think?
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Fucking Great! I was in a Car Accident with EN. Jan 14, 2011 5:15 pm
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We're both ok, but remind me to bitch slap people who will drive while holding their damn cell phone to their ears. Stupid people pisses me off when they mess with my life.

We are both ok. I know EN will not feel like working out any time soon.
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TDH's Definition of Morning Wood Jan 13, 2011 11:25 am
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We all know TDH can't keep a secret. I found him telling FHR about what happened between he and I this morning.

TDH:

She was standing in the kitchen, preparing our usual

Soft-boiled eggs and toast for breakfast, wearing only

The 'T' shirt that she normally slept in.

As I walked in, almost awake, she turned to me and said

Softly, "You've got to make love to me this very moment!"

My eyes lit up and I thought, "I am either still dreaming

Or this is going to be my lucky day!"

Not wanting to lose the moment, I embraced her and then

Gave it my all; right there on the kitchen table.

Afterwards she said, "Thanks," and returned to the stove,

Her T-shirt still around her neck.

Happy, but a little puzzled, I asked,

"What was that all about?"

She explained, "The egg timer's broken.." Show me some loving TDH!
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