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Here's yet another question that has me mystified...
What is it that ladies say that they want a decent and respectable guy, but when it comes down to it they always "fall" for the biggest "dirt bag" that happens into their path?
I probably know the answer to this, it's the mystique, and thrill of the "outwardly" bad boy, that makes the motor start running.
Ladies, let me give you a hint. We guys who are decent and respectful by day, are very often the biggest tigers by night! I for one, respect ladies, and their feelings. I was a DJ for many years at a "Gentelman's Club", the guys with the pony tails, and the Harley shirts would file in, and take the breath away of all the "dancers", but guess what. These guys would get one "bang" in, and then vaporize.... Oh boy, now that was meaningful! Then I'd hear the endless moaning about how all guys are sludge, and how there's no one "decent" out there...
Well suprise! What did you expect! A bad boy is just that...BAD! He got what he wanted. Hell, and often they would bitch that it wasn't even very good anyway!
So, ladies, remember this..... Us guys who are decent, and respectful on the outside are A) Damn'd good in the sack! and Will act like you are a human the next morning!
6/30/2005 4:26 pm
I wish that I had an answer to your question about why it is some women like bad boys. Well, I don't. However, I do have an answer from my perspective. Shall I share? I like bad boys, yes, but I at least know what to expect from them, and treat them in kind. Did I marry a bad boy? Nope. I knew better. However, I did marry a guy that is "outwardly" a bad boy, but not on the inside. It seems I found the perfect mix. Mostly though, I prefer good guys, who look the part of bad boys, but truly aren't. What can I say? Something about a man with long hair, and a goatee turns me on...|