The Results of Positive Reinforcement  

volcanoinu23 53M
272 posts
12/14/2005 7:46 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The Results of Positive Reinforcement

When things look good, I think to myself…”my, that looks good”. If looks first-rate, guess what?; I will tell you frequently so you understand that this is an excellent thing. For those of you that spent anytime in education this is called “positive reinforcement”. It is engrained in me and that is not bad. I have learned to be honest and open about what pleases me.

Where am I going with this bit of spittle? I love photography and I really enjoy looking at some of those tasteful, erotic photos on AdultFriendFinder. They are actually quite rare and take a lot of time to find. When I find one or a collection, I usually send a quick note that says I really enjoyed the photos. I usually have no interest or more likely the logistics of a meet would be impossible, but dreamers don’t get anywhere without dreaming.

So, yesterday I sent a note of this fashion to a couple. I received quite possibly the kindest note ever received in return from the female half. It has become a pattern I have noticed, you can write a kind, well thought out note expressing your interest in a person and the desire to meet them; the chances of receiving a response are almost remote. A compliment is less threatening and I receive several notes a week regarding my innocent respect for their profile or photos. I know I should appreciate the responses, and I do to an extent, but that is not why I am here.

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
12/14/2005 9:21 am

That's cool I sent a similar note to a guy on here the other day. He appreciated it and sent me a sweet and happy note back. Complete with a "hairy chest pic" because he read my profile after i emailed him, and he noticed I liked... (i wonder if he took it especially for me?)

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