Play Toys  

volcanoinu23 53M
272 posts
5/31/2006 8:18 am

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6/1/2006 6:13 pm

Play Toys

Before my last date, I reminded my friend to bring her toys with her. I had every intention of using at least some of them during the evening. In hindsight, we didn't ever use them because we really didn't need them. We had so much fun!

We talked about it and my friend said that many women liked to use toys because they need just a little more stimulation to push them over the edge.

We are still planning to use toys on our next date, but I am curious to know what type of expectations there are when your man tells you to bring the toys.



themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
5/31/2006 10:19 pm

i always travel with my toys.. sometimes we use them sometimes we don't... (all the men i have dated in the last few years)and i haven't entertained anyone in this house..

i think sex with a prescribed agenda would be no fun.. spontaneity is what matters and maybe the toys can be used some other time..

i would likely be pleasantly anxious about the upcoming fun, and if the toys weren't used and i had a good time so be it..

did that make ANY sense?


Virtue Alone Ennobles


volcanoinu23 replies on 6/1/2006 6:16 pm:
That is exactly what I was thinking and how it has worked on my last two dates now. Toys are handy, but just no need or motivation to use them. Poor lonely things!

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
6/1/2006 5:14 pm

i've never had anybody say that to me lol. though i have had dates buy me toys on their way over. (as i recall... we didn't use it at the time after all. but i got to use it alone later).


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