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A Slip of the Tongue
A Slip of the Tongue
When I am around a woman from AdultFriendFinder, I may be a little liberal about the subject of other women. It should be understood, I love women and anyone that dates me has to realize that they probably won't be the last woman I ever spend time with; and perhaps we both have a rich history that can be construed as a learning tool.
During a down moment in a hotel room with a date, we were watching "Everybody Loves Raymond" on the TV. As Patricia Heaton (Debra Barone on the show) came on the screen and I casually mentioned that I thought she was one of the sexiest women on TV.
"Now that is just a mood killer" she retorted incredulously.
Taking a breath as I lay next to this woman, trying to figure out where to go next with this discussion clearly headed the wrong way, I groped for my next words.
Patricia Heaton is not a Heather Locklear who exudes a dynamic sex appeal so I thought the comment was fairly innocent if not a little attractive. I am careful not to talk about outwardly beautiful, sexy and marketed women with my lady friends. I understand that is a perilous journey.
What brought on these moments of negativity was the fact that Patricia Heaton apparently has had work on her breasts; and this really ticked my friend off. This was also something I was not aware of nor have I ever confirmed but suddenly found myself in a very "Raymond-like" moment. You see, I am just not a breast man. Don't get me wrong, I am appreciative, but not overtly. To only a more subtle extent, I am actually a leg and ass man, but again, there are is something so much sexier on a woman. I have yet to come up with a term for it.
It is an attitude. It is ability for a woman to wear her sensuality on her shoulders.
Feelings about sex, relationships, desires, fantasies, the act itself is not something that should be hidden away in a time capsule. It may not be right there on the exterior, but it is a subtle, just under the top layer kind of sexuality. The way she walks, dresses, sits, laughs and communicates are all a big part of this sensuality that I find so incredibly captivating.
If you must know, the conversation faded into the din of eventual sexual bliss.
It was another lesson learned and another experience in this always entertaining, never dull endeavor.