A Different Kind of Dom  

volcanoinu23 52M
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5/25/2006 10:04 am

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5/25/2006 12:31 pm

A Different Kind of Dom

I have run across an astounding trend. Women love to be dominated. We are not talking about a physical domination, or a BDSM type dom either, but more of a mental control. That even sounds bad. I am currently involved with the ultimate "girl next door" but she melts and turns into an absolute sexual animal by my "domination" .

After spending most of my adult life with a woman that was less than sexually enthusiastic, I have found a handful of women that appreciate being led through a sexual scene. What do you know, it is nearly 100% of the women that I met in the last year. Boy, do I feel like a kid in a new country looking for citizenship.

If a man asked you not to wear panties for an evening out after promising that you would be rewarded later, would you be so motivated? Wouldn't you feel alive just at the suggestion, request or order? Would you even care about the reward later?

A man that can dominate a woman has self-restraint, discipline. If he constantly shows her exactly how he wants her, she may actually lose interest in the potential thrill of sexual contact with him. If on the other hand, he shows such restraint and touches her strategically, with a plan for each touch leading to a certain point later in the encounter, he is the one in control.

Of course women can do the same thing, but it is not the norm and it appears out of character for them. In addition, you are also asking men to be disciplined. Need I say more about the potential failures here.

As I chatted with several women yesterday about being led through such circumstances, you could almost see their eyes light up in the text on the screen. One admitted she might experience some frustration because she liked to seduce men and lack of control is not standard procedure. She was definitely enthralled at other suggestions where a subtle form of dom game is played.

I would like to hear specific stories where a man or woman has led or taken you through a sexual adventure where you gave up enough control to make you feel a little uncomfortable and so alive at the same time.



LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
5/25/2006 10:36 am

Hi volcanoinu23

If a man asked you not to wear panties for an evening out after promising that you would be rewarded later, would you be so motivated?
sheeesh .. i would NEVER wear panties on a date .... no request needed ..... feels so sexy to be out with man or men and know u r exposed .. even let man know that i have none on is sexy for him i think.

I do luv to, and think im pretty good at "seducing" men aslo .... it alll can be fun, if right people together i think

LilJessicaSQuirt


bi the way, "peaked around here a bit ...nice blog ...i'll be back to look more closely in future .... and, you are invited to visit my Squirter / NFM 3Some oriented blog and contibute your ideas or experiences anytime

not into control much tho .. .altho we "play" at it on occassion ... just let him contol as fun sometimes ... had a controlling abusing mate, so gotta be carefull or old thots return ..... good if kept "fun" control


LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
5/25/2006 10:38 am

Hi volcanoinu23

If a man asked you not to wear panties for an evening out after promising that you would be rewarded later, would you be so motivated?
sheeesh .. i would NEVER wear panties on a date .... no request needed ..... feels so sexy to be out with man or men and know u r exposed .. even let man know that i have none on is sexy for him i think.

not into control much tho .. .altho we "play" at it on occassion ... just let him contol as fun sometimes ... had a controlling abusing mate, so gotta be carefull or old thots return ..... good if kept "fun" control

LilJessicaSQuirt


bi the way, "peaked around here a bit ...nice blog ...i'll be back to look more closely in future .... and, you are invited to visit my Squirter / NFM 3Some oriented blog and contibute your ideas or experiences anytime


volcanoinu23 replies on 5/25/2006 12:34 pm:
If I didn't make myself clear in my writing display, let me do so now. There is no pain, there is no degradation there is only fun in this kind of domination. It is a mental game to arouse mind which is the ultimate sexual organ!

LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
5/25/2006 11:26 am

oops, my apologies ... its good to be a multi cummer ... but not a multi poster .... pls just delete this and the 1st one


volcanoinu23 replies on 5/25/2006 12:32 pm:
I am glad you just dropped by...and welcome!

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