Playing the BIG SEXUAL Game  

vlybyu 56M
12 posts
3/27/2006 7:43 am

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7/25/2006 11:45 pm

Playing the BIG SEXUAL Game


Hi to all
After spending some time (A hell of a lot)on this site,and others. I find myself in a bit of a quandary. My day and night job is internet services,programing and computers. Over the last number of years I have followed the growth of dating sites and sex sites with great interest.And when web-cams and voice became available to all of us ,I believed that the BIG SEXUAL GAME is set to break all bonds and rules.

Suddenly you could acquire the contact details and info on all the worlds sex starved/ deprived and all other descriptive words you want to add here, describing your lack of, or insufficient access to sex.Without upsetting your somewhat lob-sided existing relationships.

It now no longer required time away or out in bars or clubs ( with the ensuing babalas )for you to spend hours and hours to decipher the female codes to establish whether she was into sex or simply out for a good time with her friends. And your slightly intoxicated over used pickup line was considered near to SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

Also now you have all the tools at your fingertips to side step the carefully laid minefield of miss directed sexual overtures with the wrong female.

How is this you may ask ? Well here is how I believe technology available to us in this day and age could have been used to get like minded people together for the same game.
Firstly you complete your profile and answer all the questions truthfully. Age, marital status,sexual orientation,availability,best contact times etc ,add your own picture showing at least your face and then what ever body parts you want.Now keeping all the tools in mind ,it becomes easy to cut through all the bullshit and deception. You can simply go on line. Search the database,select on your criteria,send an invite and being on a site of like-minded people you await some response.
You are confident that you will get a response as all the people on this site has by virtue of joining proclaimed to be after more or better or different sex.
You know you are safe as all participants were screened,suggested by a member and in this game plays by the same set of rules.
This is respect for privacy and relationships. Some or most here ,are in some relationship that is only lacking in the sex and or fetish or being spoiled departments. And eager to fulfill some or all fantasies that cannot or will not be performed by the now partner. It is probably not so bad ,that you want out or looking for a new fultime partner, but you are lacking in the sexual department and need this to be fulfilled on the side without having to again run the gauntlet and starting fresh.

So now a response to your posting comes in and you put on your earphones,start the web cam, get comfortable and instantly you are talking to a like-minded same game player as close to, face to face ,as you could possibly get. Without putting yourself in harms way,,yet.Now from the safety of your own environment you can sort all or most the issues and fears. You can set up a date or a meeting or just chat the day away as in chat rooms or in private. As soon as you are comfortable and ready you proceed to what ever is appropriate .

Foila!!! SEXUAL BLISS or whatever on earth. The worlds problems are solved. We are all happy!!!!!!!!.

And here the fairy tale ends,,, How sad, or is it time to get just such a site or room setup????

A HUGE thank you to all the LADIES for being prepared to be on this site . We should thank our lucky stars and build the bigest monument for you all. AS YOU HAVE MAGIC IN YOUR BODDIES and BEINGS

southrnpeach333 50F

3/27/2006 9:04 am

I understand what you are saying. Maybe it is my age. But it seems like the 30 something men I see out have either forgotten or never learned how to treat women.


vlybyu 56M

3/28/2006 8:27 am

This is not good.I thought it was only the ladies that duck-out. And forgot to let me know where they found new places to hang out.At first you think it is something you sead ,or did ,or did not do,but reading your reply makes me wonder ??


vlybyu 56M

4/6/2006 9:13 am

More ideas for comment. Going through the male section of this site is nogal interesting. My question is this ,,,When you the ladies are spending the time to check out the male profiles do you want to see a picture of his tool as a first picture or his body build or his face.It seems that the males think it must be the tool. I am sure the choice must be the package. Thus I reason that first a face then the body and if required the tool in an erect state.Is this how you select or do you simply read the headlines??????


vlybyu 56M

5/6/2006 1:30 am

no responses ,yet I hope i got the settings right. I aso submitted as article .Still learning the inner workings of the site


justcruising76 59F

5/20/2006 3:04 pm

Hi there vlybyu... Teddy2757 here just changed my name because i accidently deleted my previous profile. For me a face with chest and torso picture does the trick , but before i evn look at the face or any other picture on the profile, i read the profile first. If the profile doesnt suit me , age , distance and all the rest i dont even bother to look any further. If i open a profile and the tools are showing i dont even bother to look any further . i hope you enjoy your journey through AdultFriendFinder.take care x x x x


justcruising76 59F

5/26/2006 5:24 am

Hi there
i hope you dont mind me leaving this message here but i cant seem to get a confirm number to answer your mail. so dont think i am ignoring the mail, just not able to answer it. take vare and have a great weekend x x x x


rm_lienkie 52F
45 posts
6/3/2006 8:49 am

So true JC, the mere look at some family jewels made me wonder why and how brave they are...but it is a bit embarressing to look at some tools and not the face I would like to talk to a face not a dick! Unless the name is dick.


rm_iwannatellu 45F
933 posts
6/26/2006 11:53 am

    Quoting vlybyu:
    More ideas for comment. Going through the male section of this site is nogal interesting. My question is this ,,,When you the ladies are spending the time to check out the male profiles do you want to see a picture of his tool as a first picture or his body build or his face.It seems that the males think it must be the tool. I am sure the choice must be the package. Thus I reason that first a face then the body and if required the tool in an erect state.Is this how you select or do you simply read the headlines??????
hi vly

I personally prefer a face because I like to see his eyes and smile, but I also like to read the blogs as you can tell a lot about a person from what they say and don't say.

Iwanna


buxomlady69 52F

7/10/2006 12:09 pm

Agree with sensual there...show something not everything...leave a little tease so one use's their imagination...save a little for later. Agreed also...not everyone wants to put up full face pic's for privacy issue's and that is acceptable...that can be seen at a later stage during contact with the individual.

Very nice start to blog vlybyu....sorry I didn't see it sooner.

Carpe Diem..an unexamined life is not worth living


vlybyu 56M

7/10/2006 11:54 pm

Thank you all for the kind words and comments.the followup will be little later. Just making sure that I have met a cross section of ladies from this site.It has been great fun so far .And I hope you are also enjoying this great freedom.


justcruising76 59F

7/25/2006 12:36 pm

Hi Vlybyu

I salute you friend.... My exact reasons for leaving the SA Group. I sommer banned myself as well. I left school 30 yrs and more ago and took enough of rules and regulations from the Principal and vice Principal. As an adult I and I alone decides what is good and what is bad for me and which rules apply and dont apply. Sorry i had to leave this here but did not know where else to leave it. I hope to meet up with you somewhere in the corridors of AdultFriendFinder sometime again soon.


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