ever wonder?  

vixey27 38
11 posts
3/4/2006 8:57 pm

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ever wonder?

ever wonder why it is that people think they need someone to please them? i mean, why can't we just be happy pleasuring ourselves. we wouldn't have to confront body image issues, safe sex issues, and the nervousness of "the first time". Is it that we think we need the intimacy, the emotional connestion? you cansay that it's the physical connection that we need but is it? if all we need is the physicality of the sexual experience then we can get that from toys, hands, etc. 0rgasms can cum without another person around so why is it that we believe wholeheartedly that we need each other for pleasure? any thoughts?

Wordsmith2004 36M
7233 posts
3/4/2006 9:35 pm

Nah, it's because we need to procreate poppet...everything in our being is hard-wired (with men quite literally HARD...wired ) to have sex with someone.

We're social creatures, so we like our sex that way. We love getting compliments, so we slide the slinky in the steamy slot so we can hear her say "Ohhhmaaahhh gaaawwd...that feels sooo fuckin' good...Ohh shiiit you're the man baby!!" (whether it's true or not )

And let's just face it, making hot sweaty sex is really so much better in a doubles tournament rather than as a single slice

I mean if we didn't do each other screaming through the night (or only into two minutes after we started ) Where would we be hmmm?

"We'll be in a world where we no longer spank the monkey, the monkey spanks us!"

Your welcome!

Good stuff!

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rm_crtyboy4 69M

3/4/2006 9:36 pm

We have been taught by society that we are not whole unless we have someelse in our life. This has lead us to believe that we are inferior if we do not. No one can make me whole but myself. I have the ability to please myself. With that said, one would think that we could all get along by ourselves however that is just not the case. We all have a need to be desired, loved, appreciated, and valued. At the same time we want to love and care about someone else. We also, be it male or female, have a desire to live on forever by producing offsprings to carry on our genes. This is a basic issue of our human race. We can not rid ourselves of these emotions because they are basic to our nature. Therfore we allow ourselves to fall into the trap that society builds for us that we need to have a certain body size, job, house, personnality, belief in another world after this one. We never stop to question why is just alright to be content with what we are. Pleasure is in your being and only you. Be true to your innerself and you will find your answers to all of lifes questions. Be Well!

kindaintrigued 55M
2 posts
3/4/2006 10:23 pm

who knows better than ourselves how to please ourself? I don't "need" someone else to please me. True, physical intimacy can be achieved by ourselves; however the "sexual experience" can't truly be realized w/o another involved. If all you need is to orgasm then you really don't need anyone else, but won't you get a little lonely?

easy_8 56M

3/4/2006 10:31 pm

It's just more fun and intense with a lover...I so love the scent of a woman....

rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
3/8/2006 6:01 pm

Among lots of reasons is the fact that, like rollercoasters, movies, concerts, and comedy, sex is better when it's shared with a friend.

rm_sinker92 65M

3/10/2006 5:50 am

you really do prefer to touch yourself don't you. you like it when somebody watches you rub yourself all over. sex comes in several flavors and depending on the mood and need you can be content with yourself or desire a partner or several partners. personally, one partner is all I care to indulge in at a time. when you can focus all your attention either on pleasing yourself or pleasing yourself with a partner, you will enjoy the whole experience much more.

riledup4u 52M

3/10/2006 4:33 pm

the connection of one being to another exponentially amplifies the experience...

letsdoit4funno2 55M

3/27/2006 8:37 pm

Vixey, it's not just physical. It's also in the head. Being so totally insynch with your lover that you are in their head and giving them just what they are wanting in ways that they had only imagined. Can't do that with plastic or rubber! If you are not convinced, drop me a line AdultFriendFinder

ChubbyLovin4me 45M
61 posts
3/31/2006 10:43 pm

Men are visual in nature. I prefer a womans help, its more fun that way. But if there is a visual aide , hot pic of you, then i could take care of my own needs. I like pics of real woman, not paid models that are on most sites.

its_me2002us 41M

4/3/2006 4:47 pm

Hey vixey, it is a simple law of physics, every action expends energy, and if I do it mu self I expend all the energy and hence try to cum faster. However, lets say I am with you, we share the energy spent and hence we fuck longer which in turn increases the makes it more excitiing. LOL

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