Is it just me?  

venusmantrap 43F
5 posts
7/17/2005 7:02 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Is it just me?

I have a bit of an issue w/ sites like this, I'm on a few others and I find that men always post or send pic's of their cocks.......well that's nice and all but seriously I'm much more interesed in your face than your dick......I put it in my profile and ppl still contact me and expect me to respond.......I personally feel that most women would like to see your face just as much if not more please men post a pic of both

Masseur_0 41M

7/17/2005 9:33 am

funny, I said the same thing in one of my blog posts. And of course I was responded with a bunch of Phallus in Wonderland mug shots. So be careful what you ask for...or you might get a bunch of "peek-a-boo!!" shots...N'Joy

rm_jpm70 46M
1 post
7/17/2005 9:36 am

your a pretty lady, where do you live?

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
7/17/2005 10:27 am

No it is not just you Venus ...I have watched the evolution of AdultFriendFinder for almost 3 years...from a time when the US ratio of "men looking for women" to "women looking for men" was 8 to 1 (held remarkably well across the Lower 48 States) to where today it is 12 to 1 (again pretty much across the continent (pity the Italians where it is currently 48 to 1). Commensurate with that change in ratio there has been a decided increase in cock shots. Can't begin to explain why. Yes, there a few women out there that collect them, even demand them, and a few for whom that is a deciding factor in whether he is worthy of their time. However, I continue to find them in the minority. Therefore, any man who takes the time to do the research (I read 600 profiles of women seeking men before formulating my profile ...purelu for research you understand ) will GREATLY enhance his chance of a physical meeting. Of course, I am assuming here that the reason driving most of the male profiles are actually for the purpose of really meeting someone. Yet, increasingly I hear from women who are RELIEVED to find that someone is actually going to simply meet them coffee somewhere and treat them with the same courtesy of any other first time acquaintance. I don't have the stats from my review of the 600 handy...will have to update that in a future blog ...but I can tell you that yes the vast majority (where it is expressly stated) of women seeking men do demand a face pic over that of a cock shot. Please don't take issue with the site perse ...AdultFriendFinder is what one can make of it....many are satisfied to be voyeurs, many more enjoy the opportunity to simply express themselves in a most liberating fashion quite apart from what they may otherwise be permitted in public, for others it is simply to communicate with those of like mind (as in these blogs), and then there are those looking for physical contact...and that itself manifests in a remarkable variety of ways. There is room for everyone here ... all I can suggest it continue to make it plain that emails will be refused from those not abiding by your filter stipulations, though I realize that is not a complete solution.



rm_nomis2 46M

7/21/2005 9:14 am

Sadly , my profile NEVER even gets looked at unless I have a picture of my COCK on it ... I never SEND pictures of my cock in messages , & I have a few pictures of my face on my profile as well , but a COCk pic on the main profile picture is about the only way to get noticed ... kisses ... S

rm_BoldDaniel 48M

7/24/2005 7:14 pm

Hummm, I don't know the answer to that question. Personally, I prefer my full body from the back side. You can see my face and torso and legs. As for my penis though, that will have to be in person and later.

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