What is the deal with these swinger couple husbands?!?  

vengeur 41M
565 posts
5/7/2005 7:21 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What is the deal with these swinger couple husbands?!?

Once again, I feel like I've been jerked around by a couple on this site. They are supposedly the sort of couple seeking MFM. I've been dealing with them off and on via e-mail for two years now, and it's the husband who makes all of the arrangements.

First, he seemed okay when I decided to e-mail him after he made a chat room announcement about seeking a M for the evening. I made it clear about who I was, sent my pics, etc. Then he said things were a go in his reply. Then he e-mailed again to ask me if I was another dude I don't even know of. I replied back to set him straight. Then he replied back about how he was confused, and that he wanted this other guy. I wrote back again to question him on this, and his reply accused me of "having attitude". I apologised, and as soon as I thought we would be able to arrange something with myself, the other dude, and the wife, with him watching and taking video, he writes to me again to say the whole thing is called off.

That's when I just said to myself, "Okay, maybe later." However, just now I saw him back in the chat room trying to convince whatever guy he could to go look for his wife in a bar he specifically named for the purposes of picking her up. "Whatever!" I said to myself when I saw that nonsense.

Why is it that some of these husbands say that they want to watch their wives do a guy like me, but that they also seem to be overzealous control freak assholes at the same time?


wingme3 58F
1 post
5/7/2005 9:52 pm

I'm sure there are husbands out there that don't do the whole control thing. Its just hard to find them.


vengeur 41M
836 posts
5/9/2005 7:50 am

wingme3, I think I just may be meeting one such husband this Tuesday night. Wish me luck!


vengeur 41M
836 posts
5/9/2005 11:02 pm

sexyfitwoman, you're right, it is a long time. This couple is hard to deal with and rather uncompromising and inflexible. It's completely because of hubby too. He's a classic case of a short man with a napoleonic complex and a tiny cock, out to show everybody what a tough guy he can be. Wifey is apparently afraid of him too, since she will only communicate with me when he's not around.


paulplus1 68M/66F

5/31/2005 9:16 pm

unfortunately it works both ways best thing to do is give it up as a bad job.


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