Couples on this site who say "No single males"  

vengeur 41M
565 posts
3/12/2005 8:16 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Couples on this site who say "No single males"

"Who's Viewing Me?
Find out who's checking you out."

The feature on this site I really enjoy is the one which lets me know who has viewed my profile. What I have noticed for quite a long time now is how many views I get from the profiles of couples. (I am already quite experienced with the joys of straight MFM, thanks to this site!)

What I have noticed is that some of these couples who view me state in their profiles that they are not interested in single men, but only bi or bi-curious women. So why do they view me anyway? My guess is because hubby and wifey do not fully agree on the issue of what they want from this site, and that she is the one who views me while hubby is away from their computer. I have even had this confirmed to me by quite a few wives over the past two years. Sometimes, I will get a request for a private IM through this site from such a couple, only to have the chat abruptly end without warning. Hmmm - did the wife have to click our chat session off suddenly because she heard the husband approaching? That would've been my guess.

My experience on this site with viewing some of these couples after they have viewed me leads me to a theory of my own. My theory is that there are some husbands out there who create their profiles as a means to get a woman on the side for themselves, by exploiting the bisexuality of their wives.

These men are simply too insecure and jealous to ever consider their wives' hidden desires to try sex with another man, especially one who is hung better than they are. (I have seen quite a few profile pics to confirm my suspicions for the potential of that whole Freudian thing.) These husbands are likely on the dominant sides of these marriages too, so they are the ones who first come to this site, pay for membership, and write up their profiles entirely. It is the wives who silently suffer as a result; never being able to realize any sort of fantasy they may have which involves a man who is not their spouse.

vengeur 41M
836 posts
3/15/2005 9:20 am

Well, I think that is true sometimes, but I would have to respect the couples who say something like, "Don't contact us, we'll contact you," more. At least they are being upfront, rather than leaving a guy like me guessing.

vengeur 41M
836 posts
3/17/2005 4:09 am

Mackey05, your theory makes sense to me, but these couples were looking at my profile last year and the year before that, long before this blog or any others were being posted. Furthermore, I have noticed that there have been relatively few couples appearing on my blog page's list of "Recent Visitors". It's been mostly just females, actually, and I really like that.

patsam69 51M/51F

4/8/2005 1:29 pm

i have looked at womens blogs ...and i am not looking for a woman....I do this usually when I am looking at a mans profile, and the people in his network of friends is listed, or testimonials. Sometimes my curiosity just takes over and I want to see what kind of "friends" this man may have.

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