umm indecisive  

vendy69 47F
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10/29/2005 12:29 pm

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umm indecisive

hello everyone . Something on my mind for a bit now and not sure what to do about it. My spouce has been in jail since may for spitting on a police offecer. He is due to be released nov 7th.
This is not the first time since we have lived in indy that he has been incarcerated for a stupid act while intoxicated. I was not aware of this problem of his till after we were married.I guess I am wondering should I cut him lose or give him one more chance to prove that he values me enough to try to stay out of trouble.We will be married 2 years on nov 20th and have actualy have spent more time apart then together.I work 2 jobs at present and pretty much have been carrying the relationship (as far as financialy )by myself.I do love my husband but is the heart ache and stress worth it? I just am not sure . That is why I'm asking for your input. thanks in advance .

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10/29/2005 1:46 pm

I don't want to tell you just to walk away -- a marraige is a solemn commitment and relationship. However, being in a situation where you're abused or abandoned, and not doing something about it is not respecting your needs.

Without knowing more, my guess is that the fact that you're even asking the question should tell you something. Listen to yourself.

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