Think! Imagine if I said.........  

velvetgrrrl 39F
1118 posts
8/28/2006 6:58 pm

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9/5/2006 7:24 pm

Think! Imagine if I said.........

What provokes the minds of some to post the topics they choose? What factor determines when we're gonna post about another on this site? What gives us the right to pick apart that person and open their dissection up for commentating?

Sure sure we have the freedom of speech but let's be real here. I am no better than you. You are no better than her and she's no better than them. We all joined this site for what it was . A site about sex. You may go "No I joined this site cause I was drunk" "There was a link in a spam email" "It was a joke" "I was desperate" but still that urge for sex in all its glorifications was up in lights when you found yourself amongst the nymphos, swinger and stench of desperation that perforates off of a few.

I find it entertaining to read about some of the profiles and see if the human psyche is as fucked up as it seems in daily REAL LIFE activity. We truly are all monkeys and I'm amazed to see that some of us have managed to find our way here.

I'm guilty of being fluent in typonese. I don't take the time to stop and smell the roses. I'm sure that makes me a horrible person to some. That I don't care how I come across. That my typing reflects upon me personally. I'm sloppy. I'm careless. I don't give a fuck. Well wanna know something? They're right! I don't give a fuck if you think my typing skills are that of a gnat. If it's truly a peeve you won't converse with me. If it bothers you and you comment there must be something about you that interests you enough to say something, that or it makes you feel better to belittle those around you.

Guys who come on here and get pissy cause they don't find barbie has become a personal irritation. What do guys expect when they come to a site on the internet! Reality is the women they're gonna find are Divorced,
single mothers, and not the prettiest girl in the group!

Others may already be attached or married. Some have that open availability and some are just like some of the men I hear women bitch about..cheating liars! What a shame no one can be honest about things That they need to hold onto a backup in case that Something better that comes along doesn't work out. But that's life and society has dictated to us to always strive for something bigger and better than what we have and to never settle.

Maybe I'm one of a minority but I don't settle when I'm happy! I just work on it tomaintain the happiness that was there when i started. A little work does not go unrewarded

I know this is a scattering of thoughts but it tends to be how my brain functions when I'm more discussing my thoughts vs a creativity streak!

All comments aforementioned will remain anonymous to protect the ignorant

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
8/28/2006 8:39 pm

Most female profiles in Utah request, well, more like demand, that some He-Man looking dude contact them. First of all, He-Man is a cartoon character. The want (need) a guy with a Hurculean physique, a healthy bank account, and an erection that won't subside for a year. Which eliminates pretty much every real person on here.

I have seen "please be above 6 feet tall". "Please be" as if it's something that can be helped. I have been passed up by many women in this state because I don't meet height requirements. It sucks. It's fucked up.

But, most of these girls will relaize that the perfect man is not what he's cracked up to be. He could look good on the outside, but his inner core could be shallow. He could be an asshole. But they don't care coz he's their dream man. When he (and yes, I do mean when) kicks her to the curb, she'll find me. But I won't want anything to do with her. I might have found something better.

(But given my track record, I doubt it.)

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

cuteNEway 41F

8/28/2006 10:23 pm

*raises hand* Single Mother and Not The Prettiest Girl all in one! Not that it matters anymore

dasher121 36M

8/29/2006 12:33 pm

I always say, when people decide to talk shit here, that we who they are trying to pick apart are the only ones who give their words power.

All I have to do to a hater on my blog, is hit the ol DELETE and BAN button and WHAMO they lose their power.


Willysjeepcj2a 60M
109 posts
8/30/2006 2:34 am

yet you are you and not someone else, all people tell thier little white lies, or at least most do. I am here to find answers to my questions and entertainment, woopie!

SecretEarNoTears 47F  
766 posts
8/30/2006 11:27 pm

Oh wow...that really hit home when you said "...What a shame no one can be honest about things That they need to hold onto a backup in case that Something better that comes along doesn't work out..." I find this sooooo many times. A guy telling me that he's got another girlfriend but yet he's out 'shopping around' and she has no clue. I sure hope he doesn't think I'm going to be the next. As for guy's expectations of meeting "barbie" here...well, I figure that's because in the 'real world' "barbie" wouldn't take a minute for that guy!

As for 'willysjeepcj2a' comment about little white lies...I'm afraid that lying about one's relationship status is beyond a white lie! Now saying you weigh 150 and you are actually 160 and can hide it...that's a white lie. I can understand 'NickRules999's' exasperation but, I come from a family of giants I guess and I do want a man that is taller than I's also a matter of having tried it already and knowing what one is comfortable with.

As for being pretty or not I feel that is all in our minds. If we confidence that we are pretty then we are ... at least to a few that have their head screwed on in the right direction.

Transblucency 44M

8/31/2006 1:25 pm

We truly are all monkeys and I'm amazed to see that some of us have managed to find our way here.

In the words of Futurama: "Well, things went pretty much back to normal, or as normal as things ever get on this dirtball populated by psychotic apes."

Damn, I love Futurama.

8321 posts
9/5/2006 2:46 pm

I think I'm very honest in all aspects.

I do analyze people, rather easily, and on occasion I will namedrop in my blog as I see fit.

If people don't like it, especially those who I name, they don't need to read me and apropos, I'm picky about who I read as well.

I do think typing, grammar, punctuation do reflect on the person to a degree. If you can't communicate your thoughts and ideas effectively it doesn't how intelligent you are, esp over the internet.

As far as women on AdultFriendFinder go, I'm very clear about what I am looking for and what I am not. I won't have anything to do with single mothers or married women. It's just something I won't do.

I'm not looking for the prettiest girl in the group, but I also won't compromise on the features I want in a woman. My profile is very explicit regarding this.

Keep in mind, though, I do relationships not hookups.

There is your honesty....


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

velvetgrrrl 39F

9/5/2006 7:24 pm

Time to play catch up on the posts
Nick - and the sad thing is a lot of the women can be picky cause there is such a ratio. Too bad in the long run they , nine times out of ten, end up witht he same man they were bitchin about before the y joined the site just to leave it due to similar circumstance. Well you know if nothing else I love ya! And you should never be anyon'es back up or never works anyhow!

Cute - You know what I'm right there with you. I need to lose 35 lbs to be back at 140 and I'm short. I'm also a single mom who's managed to have children on three separate occasions and I'm certainly not the prettiest even if I have striking features. Dones't change the fact that I have one of the worst self image views of myself cause all I can see is what I was and not what I am currently. Nor can I accept the now! You truly are my comrade in arms here! I relate to you more than anyone else

Dasher- Totally sometimes though as Cute posted in one of her blogs you can only here something so many times before you start to believe it. Sad yet true! But you're right I'm the only one with the power to let it effect me so I'm the only one to blame when it does!

Willy- Life would be grand if only it were treated so simlpy without the drama and politics. It seems power and notoriety are a driving motivation for a lot around here! And I agree one's status with relationships effects mroe than the person telling it it affects the actual partner and the potential partner as well and that could lead to a lot of ugliness

Secret- I've always hated being a back up option to smeone cause they're not happy where they are. Or not even being told until actions or occurrences have manifested.
I wish I could my scatter-brained point across sometimes. I'm sure my approach could be handled so differently

Trans- I knew you'd make me smile. Never fails you blimey bastard! We will sit and watch hours and hours of cartoons preferably the ones we enjoy we will watch fururama and zim and relax and laugh and it will be grand!

Div- If there is one thing I will always say in reference to you is that you're honest to a fault. I wouldn't say its a bad thing. But sometimes it can be hurtful a thing! Then again I coudln't imagine you any other way

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

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