Inquiring minds want to know  

velvetgrrrl 39F
1118 posts
8/13/2006 4:23 am

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8/16/2006 10:46 pm

Inquiring minds want to know

Can you make friends with someone you met from a sex site? In all reality we're all here because of some fascination with sex whether we're trying to get it or it just plays a large part in our meager lives, does it truly make a difference? Probably not. I'm wondering if you can make a friend from here without them trying to get down your pants, assume you want them or even have them figure its just about sex.

What if its not about sex?

What if your'e here to meet people make friends and somehow during those friendships you meet someone you connect with? Someone who brings out that fire? that spirit buried deep within so long forgotten you weren't aware you had a passionate nature?

I keep hoping someone might actually try to get to know me. Meet me for coffee. Converse with me over the phone. Get to know me before trying to get down my pants but its just not working out that way. Do I give off this I'm easy vibe? God, I hope not! I'm kind of a shy girl when it comes to sex lately. I think it could be cause I"m beginning to believe in fairy tales again. Of happily ever afters from those Once upon a times. Sure, I'm kind of a kick in the pants to look at hwoever I'm surprisingly old fashioned. I want to know and like a person before I'm naked with them. I want to be IN LIKE before I know the intimacies of their body and they learn my trade secrets.

Does it exist?
Should I continue to dare to dream?

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

rm_zorb1974 42M

8/13/2006 12:40 pm

I do also believe in your words.

rm_zorb1974 42M

8/13/2006 12:41 pm

I have been able to make many good friends from AdultFriendFinder without it being sexual.

Glimmer_Man06 47M
3308 posts
8/14/2006 4:01 am

Well, you struck up a very popular topic here with this one.

I myself came here out of curiousity, wanted to see if this place was "for real".

Since then, I have made MANY friends, noe of them sexual, and have had a relationship so all is possible.

I cant imagine meeting someone for sex without knowing a thing about them. Just isnt my nature.

Blog on sweetie! LOVE the hair btw!

They say a woman ages like fine wine...

...mine ages like milk!

rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
8/14/2006 2:11 pm

I have my literary crushes on certain bloggers... but at the end of the day, I still want to have sex with [blog OhBaby199].

Willysjeepcj2a 60M
109 posts
8/14/2006 8:27 pm

Always dream and do not give up hope!

8328 posts
8/16/2006 10:28 pm

I think most guys consider goth chicks to be easy.

It's a stereotype to be sure, but it exists.

It doesn't help that you parade on webcam on AdultFriendFinder.

That's going to further that perception, not to mention the hundreds of people in your Network.

It gives off bad vibes to a guy like me.

Because I know you better, I know you're not as promiscuous as I would have assumed, but you can imagine what the typical guy would think.

"She cams, she has a huge network, she probably fucks".

It shouldn't be a revelation that guys expect to get that ass.

Of course you can find friends on here without the expectation of sex.

But those are few and far between.

Most guys want your ass.


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