Banned Posts  

velvetgrrrl 39F
1118 posts
8/20/2006 4:53 pm

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8/25/2006 7:23 pm

Banned Posts

Last night I posted a story based on a personal experience one that hits close to home. I t was about . Unfortunately due to AdultFriendFinder polic it was banned until I rewrote it. I ask you bloggers this. Shouldn't I be allowed the option of freedom of expression. Shouldn't I be able to discuss anythin of importance of me. Writing it felt good. I would like people to read it. I'd like for those who I talk to understand a little bit about me and why I behave the way I do in certain situations. Should I censor part of the post to give the masses a general idea. I felt it was a really beautiful piece and about 50 people were able to read it before it went away. Those of you who did get the opportunity to read it expressed your opinion on it. Some privately and others publicly. Help me determine how I get my post back up. It's important to me to share this. I do admit to graphic detail of the event but it is one that does indeed stand out vividly in my mind

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

Glimmer_Man06 47M
3308 posts
8/20/2006 11:21 pm

Yeah, typical PRUDE America. Land of the free my ass. There is so much forbidden there, it's a wonder public bathroooms still exist. This is supposed to be an adult site with adult themes, yet PRUDE America thinks it is not good for us to read such things. I don't get it.

They say a woman ages like fine wine...

...mine ages like milk!

velvetgrrrl 39F

8/20/2006 11:30 pm

Glimmer Exactly and until we can get the stick out of the goood ol USA's ass I will continue to have what I intend to share censroed from the masses. Yet another facet of who I am squelched by the need to shield our eyes from the ugliness that is all around

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

dasher121 36M

8/21/2006 6:06 pm

it amazes me the things that will get banned, yet i can say fuck over and over for a post with nothing else and its a-ok.


NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
8/21/2006 9:07 pm

I've had posts banned before. I figure it might have been a glitch. What I have done is hit update, then repost. Then it comes up, the way it was meant to be seen. But this hasn't happened to me in a while, so I'm not sure if it's different now.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?


8/22/2006 6:59 pm

Were you explicitly told what to change about it? If not it may have just been part of the numerous weird glithces that are now in full swing due to the new site software update.

They have a heapload of new bugs to work out with that and you could simply be being affected by one or more of these weirdisms. If I were you I would continually try submitting new versions of it until the one you really want sticks. Just keep deleting the old ones that seem unaccepted and go back to Add Post again to try submitting it once more.

I've found that doing that persistently has made me able to post most anything I want.

Good luck on getting the version that really says what you want posted. I have faith that it can still be done with just a little strategic persistence.


AtomicArtist0 45M
6015 posts
8/22/2006 8:42 pm

occasionally something of mine will be banned for content. I just repost it again completely unchanged and it usually gets through the second or third time.

cuteNEway 41F

8/24/2006 2:51 pm

...yet they never seem to ban the abusive crap that we get in emails...

rm_dementional 42M
13 posts
8/25/2006 11:47 am

I was just watching some Frank Zappa clips on You Tube, mostly regarding censorship...

From another angle, what if you were to post the story somewhere anonymous and ..."Free?" And just post a link to it. Would they ban the link? ...???

TonyPlays 64M

8/25/2006 3:11 pm

It's unfortunate that A A F has those hangups. I for one would like to read what you have written.

velvetgrrrl 39F

8/25/2006 7:16 pm

Dude See and I was shocked as well cause this is a place to voice where you're feeling, thinking and etcetera. All i can figure is someone didn't like what i had to say and complained. Stated I was breaking the rules by posting about hate/underage material or some BS like that. So Now I had to fess up the story being a personal experience which I didn't initially want to do. Fucking hypocrisy these a'f'fer's be!

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

velvetgrrrl 39F

8/25/2006 7:23 pm

Nick I thought that too until they posted a reason for the ban. I just don't get how reality should be banned. I'm sorry bad things happen but I'd like to write about it
Censorship who knew I could be so controversial

KC Yep they told me something about hate crimes and underage material. I guess they mistook my youthful description of my appearance as being a child. If only 19 were still considered child like I might have maintained an innocent quality to my way of thinking

Atomic We discussed my blog and you read it unedited. I'm sure you could see where someone might have been offended but they did tell me why I was banned so I have to respect the offensiveness of my post. Hence the red lettered warning. A sort of "Abandon all hope, ye who enter" sort of message

Cute totally. If they know how much dumbass hypocritical BS I have to deal with from their clientele would they ban them? I think not. I think honestly as long as they pay A FF will turn their head
And I try not to be childish and complain too much but some of this shit really hurts my feelings after a while ya know?
big hugs

Dementional it's an idea but would I then be breaking the roules posting a link to another site. Using this as spam advertisement? There is no winning this situation so the unedited copy will remain private

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

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