IF YOU WERE ME..  

vegasriver 42F
32 posts
5/19/2005 6:42 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

IF YOU WERE ME..


I was just wondering what the best way to represent yourself on this site was? Do you need a picture posted to get any feedback? Does it need to be suggestive. I am beginning to think I am a bit naieve. How come you write to someone for a few times and then nothing? so if you were me, waht would you do or have you done? thanks...

angelcoed1980 36F

5/19/2005 7:08 pm

I have not posted a suggestive photo and I don't have any trouble getting a response from the oposite sex. In my humble opinion I think writing a blog and writing a discripative profile seems to help. My headline has also yeilded a great response, my favorite person off this site only read my headline and says that is what captured his interest in my. Just be yourself if guys don't like you for that think of it as their loss not yours.


rm_ChiChi2727 47F

5/19/2005 7:13 pm

ABSOLUTELY, A pic is necessary if you want responses. For every 1 letter you may get w/out a pic, you will get about 50 letters when you have a pic! Give it a try sistah!
Good luck!
xxx
~Chi


mnfun952 102M

5/19/2005 7:20 pm

Agreed AngelCoed... a blog that helps communicate who you are (the sexy, the funny, the intelligent, the thoughtful, the contemplative....all that you are) will be the (next) best representation (other than meeting your in person, of course).


PailsDiverHonks 55F

5/19/2005 7:31 pm

The best way to represent yourself on this “friendly site” is to be yourself! I think a photo helps but if you need discretion cut your head off like I did. I have never posted a suggestive photo of myself and I never will. Me thinks…there is place to be neked and this site is NOT it! You will run across all sorts of people on here. You will probably email/chat with all sorts…some will click, some won’t. It takes two to tango. I really enjoy the blogs on here. Writing your own and participating /comments in others really helps you to learn more about the person and them about you.


no_strings_grrl 44F

5/19/2005 7:55 pm

I would suggest also that after the initial contact, cut the bullshit. I mean, say a few nice things that you liked about their profile or pic, and then let them know that you are looking to chat on the phone, and/or meet...SOON.

In my opinion, your written profile should be rather lengthy, and cover almost everything that you might want to express in written form. Be specific in what you want and how you feel, what you are and are NOT into.

That leaves very little else to discuss via email, aside from who's gonna call who or where you're gonna meet. I mean, there are people on here who want to chat and email, and then there are people who want to MEET.

If they are serious about meeting, and so are you, screw the endless emails and get a cell number! Let's get to know one another by actually TALKING.


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