Bondage - first step  

veeery6y 38M
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7/24/2005 2:46 pm

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Bondage - first step

Today I have decided that I will try some light bondage soon. I have been playing with the idea for a long time and now it is time to actually go thru with it.

I have done some research on the Internet, just to find out if it is something I could like. And I see that as long as it does not get too extreme I could enjoy it. I do not want to give or get any pain, but will try the soft "verson" with handcuffs/rope and blindfold.

My next step now is to find somebody who have done it before or want to try it. And of course someone I thrust enugh to tie me up.
My hope is that someone I know would be intrested, so I could try it as soon as possible


nytelyst 33M
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7/26/2005 12:41 pm

The soft kind of bondage really works for me. I've only tried it, using a single pair of old-style cuffs.. (The ones with some length of chain between..) I really love to grab a girl and cuff her arms onto her back, before throwing her on the bed and pulling her pants down.. She's helpless. Grrr-rr.

Some pretend-rough sex really does it now and then. It doesnt have to be taken very far to be interesting (unless one wants it to.) But it sure spices the every-day sex with a usual partner..

I don't think any kind of bondage should be tried unless you both are really sure that you trust each other. I would never let just anyone tie me down like some animal.. (Sure'd be exciting, though.. ) Anyways, it's not something you'd for the first date

But once you try, it can be really rewarding. It has to do with the tied one giving up all kind of control. It's kind of a clear and expressive way to say: "It's my turn on top, lie still!".. At least for me it is.. I love it when only one part is deciding the action. Both when I'm on top or below.. Just lying there, all tied, while some hot girl makes all the moves... It's just so nice...

Experimenting a bit with a horse whip is also recommended.. (The short kind that's easy to use..)

Can't help you in finding anyone, though.. But take it slowly and this is not something that should be too difficult to convince someone into. Not in my experience..


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