Into Deep (thought)...  

veedoll 59M
9 posts
7/4/2006 10:31 am

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7/12/2006 4:15 pm

Into Deep (thought)...

Fast approaching me is the date that I meet my daughter for the first time in over 14 years....feeling kind of scared and apprehensive about the whole affair....

BBWseekingfriend 56F
111 posts
7/4/2006 4:52 pm

Veedoll, The fact that you are a little scared is a good thing. I am sure she is feeling the same things. Just take things slow.....

veedoll 59M

7/4/2006 6:56 pm

Thanks, BBWseekingfriend for your kind words......Veedoll

kittys4me2 53M

7/5/2006 5:45 pm

AWESOME!!! I hope you never have to wait another 14 years.I some what got to see my son grow up.It was not on a daily basis,as you have read.
She broke things up when he was around 4 years old, then she restricted the visits.(CRUE!

I remember how we (son & were when we saw each other after a long gap..i think he was 12.

It was strange,yet exhilarating..ya just want to grab them and HUG them the whole time.

The best was when were saying good bye that night,i saw a tear in his eye and he wrapped his arms around my neck and nuzzled my "I" have a TEAR in my eye.

You'll do fine...savor the moment
Best Wishes

babysgotblueeyez 53F
357 posts
7/9/2006 6:02 am


I think nervous is a good thing, to a point. If you weren't, I don't know if that'd be normal. It's been a long time...Give both of you time to adjust and acclimate to each other...Be your wonderful, charming self and she'll come around

Don't let your past dictate who you are but let it part of who you will become.


literoticat 51F

7/11/2006 9:04 am

don't force it. nurture it. whatever reason kept you apart needs dealing with, and then, just marvel. Kids are the greatest frustration fear and joy. Good luck.

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