sex meets  

vee24u 56F
59 posts
4/10/2006 8:02 am

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9/18/2006 10:39 am

sex meets

the problem with meeting a stranger for sex is no romance. it's like hi, my name is - let's go. too mechanical. trying to squeeze in an hour for just sex while out shopping. just hard to have an affair with a stranger. always worried you might get caught. worried you might bring home a disease. yet at the same time want & need more sex than you can get at home. what to do? not sure. any helpful suggestions?

rm_HAWKS1952 64M

4/10/2006 8:40 am

hmmmmmmmm-----a lot of truth in what you say.

SweetLoadInKC 46M

4/10/2006 6:13 pm

What's worked for me is to get to know the person via email for awhile so at least when you are getting together you have some knowledge of the person - what they like, what they are into, etc.

Then after it's over you can return to your respective lifes and start talking about doing it all over again.

rm_thepres96 54M

4/12/2006 2:13 pm

That is the problem with just wanting sex... it is to mechanical... touch here, squeaze this, suck this, faster now thank you....
You are talking about a romance,,, not sex... it sounds like you want romance and an affair,,, not just sex... you want the spontaneous sex that comes from teasing and being teased. You want the affair. Spend more time reading and responding to people that want to talk and visit. Remember, quicky sex is good for an orgasm.... an affair is good for many.

topekadudeforu 55M
2 posts
6/7/2006 12:58 pm

My initial thought is to just live for the moment. We are here to meet someone to experience a sexual encounter with, someone who wants more than they have at present. If someone you meet here, or elsewhere, can help fill that need, go for it. You are not looking for love here, but a lover and friend who can get you excited about the fun things in life. Get into it, and enjoy what the person you are with brings to sexually fulfill your desires!!

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