My daily rant....  

vaninow 48
193 posts
12/7/2005 9:24 am

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My daily rant....

Things are beginning to heat up here on AdultFriendFinder. I have two men I am considering meeting but before I do I still need to see what they look like. Which brings to mind a post I made just yesterday in another virtual community I belong to. I called it, 'Question Mark Men'.

Question mark men want to know all about you. They give very little information about themself but expect you to deliver the goods. When you ask them questions, their answers are vague. They don't communicate well. I had a Question Mark man just this morning send me a picture of his female partners genitalia with no text and a phone number. I have made it so very clear, no couples please and I am hetero and not into women as I worship the cock. But it was really not too surprising as Question Mark men in general do not read much.

A lot of people agree with me on this. My other blog posting received nearly two dozen replies. Many men seem to live in fear and seem to be unable to establish true intimacy - even for a casual relationship. This has been my biggest discovery since I started posting online and was a big surprise to me. Fear prevents true happiness. With fear you put yourself into a little box with four walls unable to break out.

Please everyone, my intention here is not to hurt anyones feelings whatsoever. My posts are meant to bring awareness. Open your eyes, communicate and keep it real.

By the way friends, if you'd like to see what I look like, just go to my second blog posting.


SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
12/7/2005 10:39 am

1. The men that I think are funny are the ones who set up a "couple" profile when I'm willing to bet money that their partners are completely unaware and unwilling to participate in such activities.

2. I'm also willing to bet that a man who might NOT be that well-endowed is not going to be all that anxious to send out pictures of themselves when there's TONS of big-dick pics all over this site. I really get a kick out of those that say, "I don't have a pic and I don't know how to even go about doing one." de-de-de Cameras these days damn near take pics themselves!!

3. Some men on here can't read anything except the following:

sex, fuck, cum, cock, pussy, wet, horny, now, call me, discrete

God love 'em!! LOL


redmustang91 57M  
8604 posts
12/7/2005 11:51 am

Stupidity abounds! But you only need one or two, at a time, right?


bootielover3 55M

12/7/2005 12:04 pm

Hey I understand about wanting to see a picture of them but don't you think that if it is your requirement to see a picture of their face that you should also have one. I looked at your profile and you have a fantastic body and very indepth description of who you are and what you want but there is no picture of your face except in semi-profile with cucumbers in your eyes.

I do agree that many people are vague (both men and women) but some people are not good at voicing who they really are in print. I don't want you think I am giving the game players a pass. I definately agree many people don't read the profiles I have read and seen to many instances to doubt that.

Finally I don't know that I agree with your observation about intimacy I don't fear it I just seem to become guarded about what I say because in emails you can't be sure who is seeing it.

This was a very thought provoking post. Have a great day, vaninom!!


vaninow 48

12/7/2005 2:40 pm

For bootie lover, if you really looked through my blogs, I have posted a picture of myself just the other day for clarity... I do not live in fear.


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