Too Aggressive?  

uhate2luvmee 35F
54 posts
4/28/2005 8:21 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Too Aggressive?

I was recently called "aggressive" by a guy I slept with. It was said in a way that I know it wasn't a compliment... he was biting my neck so I took that as a sign of aggression on his part - thought he was the "rough" kinda guy. But then, when we had sex, he was telling me to calm down. I didn't have the whips and chains out - or anything like that at all. I was just riding him hard - keeping up with the pace while we were making out... I'm a little confused. Does aggression scare men off?

cptdave 41M

4/28/2005 9:11 am

Everyone has a different style. Mine depends on my mood. Sounds like that guy didn't know what he wanted or couldn't express it to you. He pobably was only interested in cuming and that's it.

freetime648 52F

4/29/2005 6:31 am

I wouldn't let it bother you!! Sounds to me like you scared him! But, that is good!! They need to be shaken up from time to time....keeps them honest! You be who you are and keep on going!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

224man 33M

4/29/2005 1:14 pm

It seems that guy had no idea what he was getting into. In my opinion, being aggressive during sex makes it a lot more steamy and better for the both of you. Don't be bothered by what he said, just know he can't handle a little rough fun.

shaft_1978 38M

5/14/2005 2:43 am

I think it depends on the level. As you said, you didn't bust out the whips and chains so the guys is probably a little sensitive. I dated a pycho chick once grabbed my tounge peircing with her teeth and threated to rip it out....that is too agressive.

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