Jaded Chat  

uglypoet 51M
332 posts
8/15/2006 6:07 pm

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Jaded Chat

Its come to this sadly, reality rears its ugly head in AdultFriendFinder SEA room. The squabbles amongst chatters have reached an all time high, and I realised that its come to boredom - yes boredom! Most of the chatters are bored. They have become 'jaded' over time and somehow have lost a great portion of tolerance. They used to be enthusiastic and had a high level of tolerance thanks to the positive energy produced out of their enthusiasm, but now that has diminished like a candle slowwly burning out so had the Chats all DRIED up.

We need a approach, new faces or characters to add to the TAPESTRY.

SlimGoodGuy 38M

8/15/2006 6:51 pm

Agreed, but until the ones who frequent the room are more receptive to new folks, things are only going to worsen. The problem is, after hearing the same things over and over from new people, it's common to see people snap at them. I've also found people who are talking usually know each other and discuss things they recently did together (m&g for example). You'd either have to start up your own conversation, which is intimidating to say the least, or dive into a conversation where you may not be welcome.

So who is bored? Regulars or newcomers? Who is squabbling? It's usually a bunch of buddies against a lone user who is put on the defensive.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
8/15/2006 6:53 pm

I left the MD room a long time ago b.c. of crap like this!

Purry {=}


happyladychat 47F
3740 posts
8/15/2006 7:39 pm

I for one am not sure how to start a conversation in a crowded room. Prefer one to one.

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!

amoldenough 69F
16436 posts
8/15/2006 7:59 pm

The only thing I'm bored with is the Blogville drama!!!

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

alisa_d 37F

8/15/2006 8:36 pm

i usually sit back, and quietly enjoy the squabbles... never intervene and just let it blow over by themselves. Besides, it's nice to not be on the squabbling end for a change

uglypoet 51M
148 posts
8/16/2006 8:01 am

SlimGodGuy>> hey thanx mate for your comment and I tend to agree with ur point on a certain kinda of exclusive fraternity taht snubs e newbies...we all need to extend our arms n show a lil more graciousness...smile

PurryKitty2>> I still think u look like Cameron Diaz...smile..hey but yeah lots of crap in e chats...thanx for visiting my blog ya!...smile

happyladychat>> well I know what you mean...it is intimidating, but dear if ur ever in AdultFriendFinder SEA room...I'll chat with you dear...smile have a nice day

amoldenough>> lol...well but every cloud has a silver lining ya...smile

alisa_d> I noticed tat about u darling...smile.

funsassy>> smile..sorry did u ask if I missed u...DARLING Im in LOVE with u gurl...lmao. Hey when we meeting again?

Thanx all for your comments ...smile

MataKhan 105F

8/18/2006 3:27 am

No idea.....sometimes a participant in the drama but mostly quiet OK being my silly self.I'm a chicken anyway..most likely to grab my runners and run for my dearlifes.

Understood completelly with SlimGodGuy,it is hard when you are a newbie,specially for a gal,some old chatters mite not welcome you with open hands,plus, i'm not good in a big group full of strangers...am LOST LOST LOST..lol

uglypoet 51M
148 posts
8/18/2006 7:17 am

lol... Mata...awww ur taken good care of in SEA...lots of guys r nice to u...smile

but its usually harder for the guys isnt it mata...i mean if u refer to my 'KOI POND' metaphor, you'll understand what I mean...smile...cheers dear

Serenely_Yours 116
9198 posts
8/19/2006 4:19 pm

I hardly chat in the rooms in this site. Its just too messy. But its nothing new about all these. I used to chat alot in mIRC. Theres even more dramas and squabbling. They even brought it to real life.

٭ ˚ °◦○☻ Serenely Yours ☺○◦° ˚ ٭

uglypoet 51M
148 posts
8/19/2006 4:44 pm

lol Serene Ann...I suppose some ppl like colorful language...smile

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