First Encounter  

uglypoet 51M
332 posts
9/1/2006 9:14 am

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First Encounter

I believe every now n then we get to feeling this way. All jittery, with an andrenaline rush. Never knowing what to expect on our first date! Of course we've chatted before, in chatrroms, in IM, msn and even on the phone.

Yes, but now its in the flesh, do I look alright? What should I wear? Is this too casual? I am trying to hard with this look? Should I just be myself?

Damn, but what is myself? I'm different every day depending on my moods....sigh.

Help me out people tell me your experiences and what do or have you done?


rm_janeraped 40F
3772 posts
9/1/2006 10:39 am

First encounters have mostly been in a thin sarong, if it's at my place. No point wearing anything else, after all, it's all going to come off anyway. If it's a elsewhere (ie, outside of home), then a lowcut sundress.


uglypoet 51M
148 posts
9/1/2006 10:59 am

janeraped thnx dearie...


Serenely_Yours 116
9198 posts
9/1/2006 8:20 pm

My usual wear which will be in jeans/slacks and a blouse if Im meeting up on a weekend. If its a weekday, I will be in my workwear like pants and blouse. I hardly wear skirt. Its better to feel comfortable.

So what will you wear?


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rm_watever00 41F
70 posts
9/1/2006 11:16 pm

well its not about wat u wear on the outside, but rather how u truly feel inside. Cause at the end of the day, I am sure you want to just enjoy the company and watever comes along .... good luck!


uglypoet 51M
148 posts
9/2/2006 6:19 am

serene ann hmm ok...thats a thought...

watever...lol...good luck?...smile but I agree with u on the feeling inside...that helps...


MataKhan 105F

9/2/2006 6:31 am

Depend on the location of the meeting i suppose and the attraction that built up before the meeting.


uglypoet 51M
148 posts
9/2/2006 6:54 am

lol...aye y complicate it...just be! smile


quietly_softly 51F
4824 posts
9/2/2006 5:30 pm

Something feminine.. something that will make him want to touch and feel me..


happyladychat 47F
3740 posts
9/3/2006 8:34 pm

Making an effort to dress up (comfy and presentable), more so to leave a good impression, and to build self-confidence. As for personality wise... it's important that I be myself. No point deceiving others and deceiving me.

No expectation, if sparks were exchange... treat it as a bonus.

Good luck in your meet up.


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