Fine Line between SEXY & SLUTTY  

uglypoet 51M
332 posts
9/6/2006 10:35 pm

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Fine Line between SEXY & SLUTTY

I generally avoid the use of the word "slutty" or similar ones. It's so often used for double standards, degrading females, imposing morals, being judgemental....

It's used in a negative way towards peoples' choices of clothing, behaviour and sexual activity, all things I think are up to the individual, and which I feel I am in no place to judge.

The only negative aspects of any of that are showing a lack of respect for yourself (and that's purely up to the women, not anyone elses' idea of what is showing a lack of self-respect) or others. That's what makes someone a "slut" in my eyes, based on the idea of it being a negative thing.
(With general useage of it being someone promiscuous, I could argue my opinion that being a slut isn't a bad thing, but this seems easier to me.)

rm_janeraped 40F
3772 posts
9/7/2006 2:55 pm

With the right partner, being called a slut in the middle of play is just such a turn on. And with the same partner who turns you on, having him sms-ing you or IM you as his slut makes you want to give your all to him.

Of course, other than that, with a wacko/weirdo (especially one with bad grammar) which turns your stomach, being called a slut by it, just makes you want to kick the weirdo in his bollocks.

mindz0ne 41M

9/8/2006 7:07 pm

janeraped soooooooooo agreed. heck I loved it when my girl called me her slut! LOL. I dunno how she feels about it when I called her my slut though.

Words are double edged. Depends on how you use them right?

Still, some folks don't like it either way so yeah, respect is most important.


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