Woman is a mystery  

trysmarty 42M
12 posts
6/28/2006 11:15 am

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Woman is a mystery


Am always puzzled about a woman's reactions to normal situations. I am trying to figure out how a woman's mind works, but mostly am not so successful.

abitcrazy4sex 44M
1335 posts
6/28/2006 12:39 pm

i doubt you will ever figure out how a womans mind works they shall be a mystery to the rest of the population as well . i guess thats what i like most about them !


CB_2 51F

6/28/2006 12:41 pm

Well, give us an example, and I'll try to explain...

Blogito ergo sum.


pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
6/28/2006 12:56 pm

Good luck on that, perhaps us females here can help you out in trade. lol.


rm_iwannatellu 45F
933 posts
6/29/2006 1:20 pm

I'll let you in on a little secret - I think the reason we are so difficult to figure out is because we change our minds so much...

Sometimes I am not sure what's going on in my own mind, so I don't know how you are supposed to. LOL

But that's just me - I am not necessarily speaking for all women.

Iwanna


trysmarty 42M

7/1/2006 8:38 am

    Quoting CB_2:
    Well, give us an example, and I'll try to explain...
Like the girl sends naughty sms and then when I respond with even more raunchier sms she says she wouldn't have any of me because I am filthy


trysmarty 42M

7/1/2006 8:39 am

    Quoting abitcrazy4sex:
    i doubt you will ever figure out how a womans mind works they shall be a mystery to the rest of the population as well . i guess thats what i like most about them !
Ya, I 2 agree.


trysmarty 42M

7/1/2006 8:40 am

    Quoting rm_iwannatellu:
    I'll let you in on a little secret - I think the reason we are so difficult to figure out is because we change our minds so much...

    Sometimes I am not sure what's going on in my own mind, so I don't know how you are supposed to. LOL

    But that's just me - I am not necessarily speaking for all women.

    Iwanna
Lil enlightening, a peek into a woman's mind.


rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
7/1/2006 7:15 pm

it is one big classroom of life on this planet, kiddo...in time, you will learn

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


imLadyBambi 58M/50F

7/1/2006 11:47 pm

Smarty,

I think I can answer your question...

Today I wrote a blog I Wanna Be a Slut. The blog is filthy and I even say that I wanted to be treated like a slut. That's not true! With very few exceptions, women want to be treated with respect and understanding. No matter what they write, how they are dressed, how forward they are, the best approach is always one of respect. If you were to e-mail me - even after reading my blog - I would automatically reject you if you said something crude.

As far as understanding goes. Women like to express emotion, men like to fix a problem. If a woman says "my boss was very unfair today, he blamed me for the marketing problem." The woman does not want to hear how she should resolve the prolem, instead, she wants empathy. She wants to know that you know how she feels. The proper response would be "what I'm hearing is that you felt like the scapegoat." "I'm sensing that the boss does not value you as an employee." "I hear the outrage in your voice."

Only after you connect with the woman on an emotional level can you have true and effective communication. Once you have established the communication on her terms, the relationship can move forward on your terms (more or less).

Good luck and thanks for leaving a comment on my blog!

By the way, I hope you realize that the blog was fantasy!

Lady Bambi


trysmarty 42M

7/3/2006 11:07 am

    Quoting rm_goddess1946:
    it is one big classroom of life on this planet, kiddo...in time, you will learn
OK


trysmarty 42M

7/3/2006 11:09 am

    Quoting imLadyBambi:
    Smarty,

    I think I can answer your question...

    Today I wrote a blog I Wanna Be a Slut. The blog is filthy and I even say that I wanted to be treated like a slut. That's not true! With very few exceptions, women want to be treated with respect and understanding. No matter what they write, how they are dressed, how forward they are, the best approach is always one of respect. If you were to e-mail me - even after reading my blog - I would automatically reject you if you said something crude.

    As far as understanding goes. Women like to express emotion, men like to fix a problem. If a woman says "my boss was very unfair today, he blamed me for the marketing problem." The woman does not want to hear how she should resolve the prolem, instead, she wants empathy. She wants to know that you know how she feels. The proper response would be "what I'm hearing is that you felt like the scapegoat." "I'm sensing that the boss does not value you as an employee." "I hear the outrage in your voice."

    Only after you connect with the woman on an emotional level can you have true and effective communication. Once you have established the communication on her terms, the relationship can move forward on your terms (more or less).

    Good luck and thanks for leaving a comment on my blog!

    By the way, I hope you realize that the blog was fantasy!

    Lady Bambi
Oh yea, you are right, I would remember your tips. Thanks.


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