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When is a good time for full swap??  

truxxxceptionz 35M/34F
5 posts
8/16/2009 1:29 pm
When is a good time for full swap??

Just an open post to find out when do couples think it is a time for full swapping?? I have noticed that alot of couples are looking to single females mainly because (and this is just from a few) the women are afraid of how their husnabds or boyfriends might feel about seeing another male "outdo" what they can do for their wife/girlfriend. And is it fair that if the woman does want to full swap that they can't do to a male insecurity? Just something I figured I would throw out there... Let me know...

mrmovieman2005 58M  
3018 posts
8/17/2009 5:59 am

Communication is the key to making it work; both partners have to feel safe to express their feelings, and any insecurities to the other; and being sensitive and loving to your partner is the second major ingredient.

meande4you 42M/33F
4 posts
8/23/2009 10:27 am

Interesting. But if that is the case they need to get out of the lifestyle. It makes the situation bad. We know a few ppl. that we feel are the same way. So we don't really play with them b/c of that. The female shouldn't have to hold back b/c of the male insecurity. But we feel like they shouldn't be in the lifestyle if someone has to settle b/c of the other.

FoistCovesMesas 30M/34F

9/7/2009 4:09 pm

I've seen those type of couples on here and I agree with you it's an insecurity thing. I don't Think it's fair if the guy gets to play but the female doesn't. If your secure in your relationship than you will know it's just sex! I believe in Full Swap or No Swap

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